Single Mom Fetish: My Kink for Single Mothers

For a while I had an addiction to relationships with single moms. There are a lot of them out there. Some are doing great, and some are doing terrible, but they all have this one thing in common: the father of their child or children just isn’t there.

There is something about that grand betrayal, and about the kind of contingency and self-reliance it fosters, that can make a single mom very sexy.

What’s the Single Mom Fetish About?

Women who have yet to have children are often seekers. They don’t know what they want. They are prone to changing their minds, to suffering from wanderlust, and to making their lovers suffer through endless monologues about what the future holds.

Not so with single moms. They know what their immediate future is, and what their priorities need to be. A man in their life occupies a much different place in the hierarchy of importance.

Sex with single moms is different too. One always has to work around the children. They loom over bedroom time, constantly diverting attention, erecting vast logistical ramps that need to be scaled before your Roman lust can breach the high gates of Masada.

Some kinky moms want to use you for a night, while others want to incorporate you into their lives as a fixture or father figure. Some single moms promise you and the kids are separate issues, but they never are.

Read: 5 Kinds of Mommy Fetishes and Kinks

I think maybe the single mom fetish stems from a love of challenges and logistics. It’s a little harder to get a single mom to love you, because she is trusting for two. It’s a lot harder to get disentangled from a single mom because you are often breaking more than one heart.

I in no way advocate the notion that one should play with hearts, or break hearts just for fun. This is especially the case when you are dealing with sexy single moms and their kids. That said, single moms often have a sense of pragmatism and wisdom that ladies without kids lack. The traumatic act of birth, and the care that must follow naturally changes a person.

Obviously there are married or attached women with kids too, but that is a whole other scenario. That involves either cheating, or cuckolding. Those are well explored fetishes, so I need not get into them here.

Read: Breeding Kink and the Impregnation Fetish

I don’t think people are talking much about the single mom fetish, though. It’s a real thing, and it’s a lot sexier than you think to get to know these ladies.