A strange thing happened a couple of years ago—my favorite porn sites and spam box were suddenly brimming with teasing stepmothers telling me I’d been a very bad boy. I had ordered an anthology on motherhood for a friend who was expecting, and now I was getting ads for mommy fetish porn!
I wasn’t expecting so many kinds of mom fantasies, but I learned fast how common it is, and how many varieties of mommy fetish there are.
What is a Mom Fetish?
A mommy fetish can take a lot of different forms, which we’ll look at in a moment. Generally though, it’s the sexual attraction to a mother-like figure, and not necessarily one’s own.
Why a mommy fetish?
Our personal, religious, and social tendency is to see mothers as sexless. The universal taboo on incest makes this viewpoint even more stringent.
But male desire always tells the truth and shows what’s obvious—mothers are, of course, sexual beings. Sex is at the center of the whole process! Freud pointed out the fact that men (and even women) become aware of women and their own sexuality through their mother.
Most men won’t experience the mommy fantasies literally, or their desires are sublimated into other women, or other mothers. But that doesn’t reduce the power or pull.
The men who do enjoy mommy fetish play can find open-minded partners online:
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5 Types of Mommy Fetish
I watched tons of mommy porn with utter fascination. Here’s what I’ve learned about the range of kinks.
1. Step-Mom Seductress
I’m pretty sure the proliferation of step-mommy porn is just a technical way to skirt past various obscenity legalities for actual incest. But it’s also its own thing. After all, the sexual allure of mother is symbolic, not personal—an experienced woman to teach little Johnny the ways. It’s archetypal.
Few guys literally want to fuck their own mother. But a stepmother, well, that’s the best of all the worlds. It’s also tied to the power of cuckolding one’s own father, the ultimate competition.
And don’t forget, there’s always roleplay: Incest RolePlay: Mother Son Fetish
2. The MILF Next Door
Ah, yes, the dreamy buxom abundance of the mature blonde. Stifler’s Mother is another archetype—somebody else’s mother. She is pretty much the only thing anyone remembers from the 1999 blockbuster film American Pie, and the term MILF was cemented then and there.
Read: MILF Hookups: Fulfilling your MILF Fetish
3. Adult Baby and Diaper Fetish (Infantalism)
These different kinks overlap. Basically, it is about regressing to infancy and play-regression with actions and props. These kinks might involve diapers, adult-sized onesies, playpens, and pacifiers. Diapering fetishes sometimes include soiling and piss play. The comfort of regression to infancy includes the enactment of mommy, offering bottles or rattles and changing diapers.
Read: 11 Age Play Fetishes and Kinks
4. Pregnancy and Lactation Fetish
Women swelling with hormones and new life are hot. There is so much going on that is supremely sexual. Her tits and hips are swollen, and she’s giving off pheromones galore. In some cultures like the south, it was indecent just to see a woman during pregnancy! Being pregnant advertises, after all, sex and its natural culmination.
For the male, whose testosterone is driven by competition, this can be the ultimate turn on. She has clearly been with a male and is carrying his seed. You’ll find plenty of adult-nursing relationship porn online if that’s what floats your boat.
Read: Lactation Fetish: 4 Types of Milking Kinks
5. Breast and Nipple Fetish
If you thought the whole mommy kink didn’t apply to you, or you’re a female reader and are a bit weirded out just talking about this, understanding that this kink is the same one that makes all of us love breasts—men and women alike—can put things into perspective.
Arousal from looking at or touching breasts is so commonplace for men and women, it is almost considered mundane. It’s the mainstay of pinups with and without clothes. But not all cultures sexualize the breast. They have no real role in sex except for the nourishing of infant children. They are for baby, not for us.
Read: 6 Kinky Breast Play Tips and Tricks
The fact that we all find titties enticing tells us everything we need to know about the rest of these mommy fetishes.
Do you have a mommy kink that is unique? Please share in the comments!
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