Breasts are amazing aren’t they? Mine are such an incredible source of pleasure, and I don’t even use them for anything other than to hang a bra, or engage in a bit of breast foreplay.
Imagine enjoying breasts on a whole other level, as do the community of adults with lactation kinks?
Maybe you’ve heard of erotic lactation fetish before, and like me, you assumed it’s just about breastfeeding from a partner’s tit. Well, apparently there’s a whole lot more to it.
Read on to learn about lactophilia, and different kinds of milking fetishes.
Types of Erotic Lactation Kinks
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1. Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR)
Adult nursing relationships are between two consenting adults, with one partner breastfeeding from their partner’s breast for pleasure. Couples who are involved in ANR often start the milking relationship on the heels of weaning a child, either as a way to increase intimacy or for more practical purposes.
If nursing a child is impossible, for example, a mother’s partner might take over at the breast, so to ensure the continued flow of milk. What begins as a “job” might become erotic, depending on the desires of each partner. In some cases, women experience orgasm from milking.
Read: All About Adult Nursing Relationships
2. Breast Pumping
Some women with lactation fetish prefer to experience the pleasure of producing milk on their own, by way of pumping. They might even continue pumping well beyond the point at which their baby has been weaned because it makes them feel more feminine, or they just enjoy the process.
A woman may choose to bring her partner in on the action, either as an observer, or as an active participant. Some find it pleasurable to squeeze a manual pump, while others prefer a mechanical one.
Read: 6 Kinky Breast Play Tips and Ideas
3. Lactation Prostitution
Not to be mistaken for wet nursing (surrogate feeding), lactation prostitution refers to breastfeeding another adult for money. I can’t imagine this is a common offering among the sex workers, because it’s so taboo and it requires breasts of a lactating woman. In any case, it’s out there to be had.
There’s a kinky restaurant in Beijing that bakes breast milk into some of its dishes. Would you eat a fancy dessert made with breast milk?
4. Lactation BDSM: Milking and Force Feeding
There are ways to work lactation fetish into the context of BDSM.
You can use it to reward or punish a submissive partner, or you can use milking as a form of humiliation. A dominant partner could even demand milk from a submissive one. Forcing a partner to take the breast against their will can be used as a punishment, or as an element of power exchange.
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