Kinky Confessions

Adult Nursing Relationship Fantasy

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It’s time for me to reveal another personal kink, something that I’ve just shared with a new lover. I have a fascination with adult nursing relationships.

“Lactophilia (breast milk fetishism) is a sexual paraphilia where individuals (typically male) derive sexual pleasure from watching women lactate, sucking on women’s milk-filled breasts and/or having sex with lactating women.”

It’s not something that I would like to try, but I do love reading erotica that involves a man suckling from a woman’s breasts. It turns me on more than most porn, and when I did try and find x-rated videos of adult nursing relationships (ANR) they were hard to find.

It’s something I feel weird about, like maybe some of you do about fantasies and fetishes you keep to yourselves. I’ve never had or wanted children, so maybe breastfeeding is something I feel detached from and can feel sexual about. I don’t know, I haven’t spent too much time wondering where this fascination comes from.

The way I get my fix when I think about ANR is to go on Craigslist and read the personals where men post ads seeking out women who are already lactating and willing to share their milk with them, or guys who want a woman who would be okay with inducing lactation (again, fascinating but something I would never do because I would worry about its effect on my health).

So I have this new lover, and sex is great. We get our kink on through role playing, dirty talk, phone sex, and orgasm denial. I’ve just recently told him I liked having my nipples sucked harder than he previously did, and when he brought it up in our recent late-night phone sex, it led to a wet-and-wild mutual masturbation orgasm.

“It is thought that in some cases, the suckling can be a replacement for sex and that the mutual and intimate tenderness involved between consenting couples has a stabilizing influence on such relationships. It has also been noted that some women are capable of achieving orgasm during the suckling process.” – Psychology Today

I finally got the courage to bring up ANR to my lover, and he said he would be up for it if it was something I wanted to try! I was taken aback by his willingness and told him that for now I was happy with just fantasizing… but hey, who knows what the future holds!

I would love any readers with ANR experience to share in the comments!

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Bill
Bill
1 year ago

I’m a 53 year old in the Midwest. I have been in an ANR/ABF before and crave to be in one again. It is not all about sex. It’s a act of bonding that not much else would replicate. I am not submissive, not at all, and definitely not into any kind of mommy play or anything else like that. But to be able to just sit back, relax, latch on and suckle as she pulls me in closer would be a dream come true.

String
String
1 year ago

You just wrote what my heart says, what I have looked for all my life.

Stephanie
Stephanie
1 year ago

It’s no different than having a baby, you just have to self induce by one means or another and you skip colostrum, only made by a hormone from pregnancy. It’s 100% healthy for a woman to have stimulation to the breasts daily, with or without lactation. I don’t agree with pumping yourself full of meds and such, to induce. most that do are trying to prove something to themselves in an unhealthy manner, all those pills! It is extremely bonding. I’m on the nonsexual, non-fetish side because breastfeeding and suckling is human nature, society has ripped it apart. Men have… Read more »

String
String
1 year ago
Reply to  Stephanie

You are a rare person who is like me into nonsexual, non-fetish ABF. Unfortunately, I never had an ABF partner. I so much want to feel the love and the bond in it. The natural love in the eyes of a feeding woman. The warmth of the bosom… the scent … the lovely hold… I just dream of it.

Bill
Bill
1 year ago
Reply to  String

That sounds incredible, are you in the Midwest?

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