The dildo. When you think sex toy, the trusty dildo is what comes to mind. It’s the gold standard of the toy box.
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For masturbation, for women, it substitutes for what’s not there at the moment. For partners, it prolongs penetration and makes it more versatile.
For men, it can give your under-attended bottoms the stimulation you deserve, or heighten the thrill of fucking by letting you see the penetrating action up close.
For lesbian encounters, I can feel that thrill, too, watching the dildo open her pussy and slide on up into it.
The old in and out—we all crave it, and the dildo adds to our opportunities to make it happen!
But if your old standby is getting a bit stale, liven things up with a new repertoire.
5 Exciting Dildo VariationsÂ
1. Give the Dildo a Helping Hand
The Vac-U-Lock Knuckle Up is a brilliant invention. Knuckle dusters or hand harness, by any name is just as sweet.
When I need a good, long-and-hard drilling, attaching the right dong sleeve to this baby is just what the doctor ordered. But it’s great for me to wear too, to punish you with.
I can simulate aggressive fisting safely, thrusting my heart out, without causing damage to an inexperienced fistee. Bottoms up, boys!
2. One Size Does Not Fit All
Maybe you’ve been in a sex toy store and wondered who would want to use the impossible seeming King Kong cocks.
Or even more perplexing, the tiny, thin two-and-three inchers.
I always assumed the teeny tiny ones were wallet sized for in-car or discreet cubicle emergencies!
But kink play has taught me a great deal about sexual creativity. Both extremes may be more limited in use than my favorite everyday eight-inch dildos, but a repertoire of dildos is great for sensation play. When I’m bound and blindfolded, you can tease me with the smallest penetrators so I beg for the real thing, or you can train me, working on my pussy to prepare it to take the largest one.
Smaller or thinner dildos, by the way, are also extremely useful if your girlfriend or date is transgender and has recently had sexual-reassignment surgery. Something too large—including you—may be painful or difficult, and having options for her pleasure is a great idea.
3. Go Big or Big Home
The Huge Penis Dildo is a perfectly proportioned penis with a nice head and veins. This no-bells-and-whistles dildo is a go-to when I find myself alone, and it’s perfect for a strap-on harness when I’m not. It comes in black and cream too, but I love the pink one.
4. Refined Elegance
Njoy Eleven is easily the classiest, most elegant dildo money can buy, and if you want to let a special someone know that you think her ass is too good for cheap plastic, splurge on this.
The smooth stainless steel is luxurious and hypoallergenic. It’s a beautiful work of art and has a nice heft in the hand. And it comes in a gorgeous leather clutch.
5. Rigid Ribbed
How I love the Bent dildo. It’s a versatile, pretty, easy-to-clean, handy, practical, perfect glass dildo.
It’s bent just so for G-Spot stimulation, but turn it around for some out-of-this-world texture. Glass is great for sensation play as it can be cold or warm. And it’s super easy to clean, so it’s good for travel.
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