It’s time for me to reveal another personal kink, something that I’ve just shared with a new lover. I have a fascination with adult breastfeeding.
My Adult Breastfeeding Kink
“Lactophilia (breast milk fetishism) is a sexual paraphilia where individuals (typically male) derive sexual pleasure from watching women lactate, sucking on women’s milk-filled breasts and/or having sex with lactating women.”
Adult breastfeeding is not something I have tried, but I do love reading erotica that involves a man suckling from a woman’s breasts. It turns me on more than most porn, and when I did try to find X-rated videos of breastfeeding fetish and adult nursing relationships (ANR) they were hard to find.
Read: All About Adult Nursing Relationships
My erotic breastfeeding kink is something I feel weird about, like maybe some of you do about fantasies and fetishes you keep to yourselves.
I’ve never had or wanted children, so maybe breastfeeding is something I feel detached from and can feel sexual about. I don’t know, I haven’t spent too much time wondering where this breastfeeding fetish comes from.
Read: Lactation Fetish: 4 Types of Milking Kinks
Adult Breastfeeding Fantasies
The way I get my fix when I think about my breastfeeding kink is to go on fetish dating sites. I read the posts of men seeking out women who are already lactating and willing to share their milk with them, or guys who want a woman who would be okay with inducing lactation.
I’ve yet to join in or connect with another adult breastfeeding lover, but just thinking about it gets me off.
Speaking of getting off, I have this new lover and sex is great. We get our kink on through role playing, dirty talk, phone sex, and orgasm denial.
I’ve just recently told him I liked having my nipples sucked harder than he previously did, and when he brought it up in our recent late-night phone sex, it led to a wet-and-wild mutual masturbation orgasm.
Read: Types of Kinky Nipple Play
“It is thought that in some cases, the suckling can be a replacement for sex and that the mutual and intimate tenderness involved between consenting couples has a stabilizing influence on such relationships. It has also been noted that some women are capable of achieving orgasm during the suckling process.” – Psychology Today
I finally got the courage to bring up my adult breastfeeding fetish to my lover, and he said he would be up for it if it was something I wanted to try! I was taken aback by his willingness and told him that for now I was happy with just fantasizing… but hey, who knows what the future holds!
Read: Breast Fetish: 9 Types of Breast Kinks
I would love any readers with ANR or breastfeeding fetish to share in the comments!
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