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Tips for Voyeurism with Consent

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Whenever the words “sexual voyeurism” are tossed around, people get a little uncomfortable. Is that because the thought of it immediately conjures up images of Peeping Toms and dirty old men masturbating on a park bench? Probably. What if I told you that lots of people are really into watching other people have sex and that they have nothing to be ashamed of because there are ways of doing it that are consensual?

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There’s no need to hide it any longer! You can finally admit to that secret place you hold in the pervert parade! Just be sure to practice your voyeurism in the following ways.

Go to the Sex Club

Sex clubs are great places to explore your voyeuristic curiosity. They are very open and nonjudgmental, often filled with exhibitionists who want nothing more than to perform for you. Just be sure to seek out the right fit.

You don’t want to crash someone’s private fun by mistake, or be witness to something you wish you could unsee. Talk to a veteran patron or two first, or do some research of your own before jumping in.

Make Friends with Like-minded Couples

Online kinky dating sites are a good place to start. You don’t want things to get super weird between you and your friends… “Oh yeah, I was totally kidding about that. I so don’t want to sit in on you getting a blow job.” Awkward!

Whether you only want to watch, or you have a desire to perform as well, there are other couples out there just waiting to meet you. Be really specific about what you’re looking for and you’ll have a way better chance of finding it.

Watch Your Partner Masturbate

This is a good way to ease yourself into the world of voyeurism. I’ve watched partners pleasure themselves before and thoroughly enjoyed the show. Until doing research for this post, I didn’t realize that made me a voyeur!

You can do a bit of role playing and pretend that you’ve walked in on each other by mistake, or just ask to see what your partner does to satisfy herself when you’re not around. Then take a few notes.

Watch Couples on a Live Cam

This is basically similar to watching porn, except you have the added thrill of knowing that the sex is happening in real time. You might have to do some searching before you find the right site for your needs, but once you do, you can enjoy hours of voyeuristic fun, right from the comfort of your own home.

Record Yourselves or Do It in Front of a Mirror

This is the old school quick and dirty way of doing things, but hey, if you think it might work for you, why not give it a try? Set a mirror up next to the bed, or on the ceiling if you’re not planning to offer your bed to mom and dad at Thanksgiving, and have at it.

If you’re going to hit record on your shenanigans, just be sure your partner knows about it and is totally game. Also, and I’m sure you already know this, don’t share the recording with anyone unless your partner first consents.

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