What’s more fun than an adventurous couple experimenting with sex? Three adventurous folks exploring each other in a ménage à  trois! If you’re one half of a kinky couple looking for your first third to join you in a threesome, it can be daunting. These tips will help you get started.
Advice for Kinky Couples Looking for a Threesome
1. Find a new third. And by this, I mean don’t be tempted to ask your single friend down the street. Yes, that might be easier, but it can also make everything a lot more complicated. When you choose an anonymous third there is a greater chance that things will remain confidential, which is very important to most couples. Take your time. Be choosy.
2. Use a niche dating site. There are plenty of sites that cater to kinky couples like BDSMdate.com and FindaThreesome.com. Most people on mainstream sites will not list their interest in kink or group sex, but on these they will. Online, you can browse together to find someone who meets both your kinky criteria.
3. Negotiate. A threesome isn’t going to fix a broken relationship, but it sure can spice things up. Talk about your individual motivations and any fears you might have, as well as what your limits and boundaries are. You don’t want to be doing this during the action, or it might ruin the mood.
4. Choose your location. Hosting in the comfort of your own home allows you to create the kind of environment you want and to have everything at the ready. If privacy is a priority,  you may want to rent a hotel room or use Airbnb for a secret destination.
5. Keep expectations low. There’s a lot of things that can go right… and wrong with your first threesome, so if it doesn’t quite live up to your fantasy, don’t let it discourage you from trying again. Bring what you learn and love to future sessions while giving up what didn’t work.
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