When I was in college, a friend of mine had this funny poster on his wall.
A woman in her 20s is like Africa, semi-explored.
A woman in her 30s is like India, warm and mysterious.
A woman in her 40s is like America, technically perfect.
A woman in her 50s is like Europe, all in ruins.
A woman in her 60s is like Siberia, nobody wants to go there.
Ignoring how bad this reads, let’s talk for a moment about women somewhere between India and Europe, between 30 and 50 years of age. In the vernacular of today, these women are known as MILFs and cougars.
Lots of guys are into younger women. Many women want to find men who are a little older. There is likely a bunch of biological precedent for this kind of thing, but in our conscious minds it really boils down to sexiness.
Guys find younger women sexy. They are tight, and there is something exciting about innocence. Being around for the loss of virginity, or being closer to that event, makes a fellow feel like he is exploring new territory. This feeds into some kind of machismo for sure. Also, continuing to date 20-somethings, through to the age of 50, 60 and 70, can make one feel young.
What you’re overlooking, though, is the amount of love that mature ladies have to give. I’m not talking about hitting up retirement communities. I mean a 40-year-old woman who knows what she wants in life. She won’t be nagging you for kids or stability like a woman in her late 20s. Cougars have already made their decisions about family. Now they just want someone who drinks wine, likes to fuck, and can carry on an intelligent conversation. They have passed the drama.
Gals in their early 20s don’t know what the hell they want. They may be alright for a month or two, but their friends will drive you bonkers with their vapidity. Plus your girlfriend will surely get restless and dump you to go spend time at an ashram in Tibet, or at an arts internship in Antarctica. Her ass will be gone, and that’s natural. An older lady will stick around and stick with you.
Let’s face it, a 40 year old will be technically perfect. She will know exactly how to please you, and she will do it. She will know how she wants to be pleased,and she will explain it to you. Think about it. Also, she will have her own life and won’t clog up all your time with the silly emotions of youth, and the petty concerns of the inexperienced. It’s just way less annoying!
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