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Polyamorous Dating Sites for the Open-Minded


Looking for the best polyamorous dating sites?

Polyamory, the practice of non-monogamy in which all partners are in the know. It’s a much better option than cheating for those who wish to experience a variety of lovers, and can range from simply enjoying multiple sex partners to being part of a loving polyamorous triad relationship.

If you are polyamorous and having difficulty meeting new poly people you aren’t alone. It can be tough finding someone you click with at all, let alone someone who’s down with sharing your love, and your body.

Honesty is always the best policy, but when it comes to telling that sexy new crush about your polyamorous ways you sometimes start to wonder if there’s an easier way.

Best Polyamorous Dating Sites

I have a few polyamorous friends and they have found great success using polyamory dating sites. They can bypass that awkward conversation altogether and simply put it all out there on their profile and see if any fish bite!

The following three sites are my favorite spots for finding polyamorous partners online. And I’ve included something for everyone – you’ll find polyamorous dating sites for poly hookups, polyamorous relationships, and kinky polyamory encounters. Enjoy!


Yes, there are sites dedicated to polyamory dating, such as It’s a hookup site with a huge database of members and is probably your best bet in this particular niche.

I will warn you – it’s rather sexy inside with lots of full nudity and videos, so if you’re looking more for a serious relationship it might not be as useful, but you never know. For threesomes? It’s ON!

Join Polyamory Date

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Another poly site I’ve used is, which is a lot more tame.

Although there are less couple profiles and members overall and the features are very basic, everyone is polyamorous here and that’s the appeal. Hopefully it will continue to grow, and we’ll have another polyamory site to find our open relationships.

Join Polyamorous Dating


Since this IS Kink Lovers Magazine, I’d be remiss if I didn’t add my favorite site for kinky dating. is a huge kink community of people into fetish and BDSM.

What makes it so great for polyamorous people? It is one of the very few dating sites out there that accepts couples profiles and that’s a big deal. When couples can join with a single profile it makes it so much easier to not only find other poly couples, but for couples to find you.

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Read: How to Come Out Poly and Kinky

What’s been your experience with polyamorous dating sites? What are the challenges?

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