We all know how hard it can be to keep sex fresh in a long-term relationship. Some couples even find their love life petering out at the six-month mark. This doesn’t mean a relationship is over, but if you want to stay together, why not have great sex as part of the union? You don’t need to go full throttle into the bdsm lifestyle either, you can just begin to explore kink at your own pace and see where it takes you and your partner.
Kinky Activities For You and Your Partner
1. Visit a Sex Shop Together
This can be so much fun! You’ll learn about your lover’s fantasies and desires without even trying. And you’ll be educating yourselves at the same time. Most shops carry something of interest to bring back to the bedroom – racy videos, sex toys, costumes, erotic books, and other surprises.
2. Watch Porn as a Couple
Some people see porn as something to only view in private, but if you like watching XXX videos alone, why not get hot, hard, and wet together. It’s also a great way to reveal what gets your motor running without saying a word.
3. Make a Kinky Wish List
This can be a fun game. You can write your kinky desires on pieces of paper that you keep in a box. When you’re both feeling adventurous, take turns pulling a kinky wish out and make it come true. Sex that is playful keeps a relationship fresh.
4. Perform Role Plays
It doesn’t have to be Halloween to get dressed up and act a little wild. Sexy role plays are perfect for couples who have one person who prefers to be dominant in the bedroom. If you’re short on ideas, check out our post “5 Red Hot Role Plays.”
5. Try Sex in Public
The idea of being caught in the act is very titillating. And if you’re an exhibitionist, you may not mind someone getting a glimpse of you and your partner pleasing one another. Also, you don’t necessarily have to go all the way – a hand up her dress or a hand down his pants may be just enough to rev your engines.
What keeps your relationship spicy?
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