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Wish List for a Kinky New Lover

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On the precipice of a new year, I find myself between relationships. This is when I am most reflective… about resolutions and what I want from my next relationship. I’m not looking to settle down, I know that, but I still want what I want when it comes to hookups or a regular lover. I spent too many years in bad relationships where sex was lacklustre. As I matured and explored my sexuality, I began to recognize what I truly want from a lover, a partner, and a relationship. Sexually speaking, I’m quite happy to be single… because I know how to please myself until the right person comes along. But here are a few things on my wish list that I will put out into the universe…

1. Someone who isn’t afraid to share their fantasies. There’s nothing hotter than a man who is confident in bed and who has either explored his kinks or is open to.

2. A tactile partner. Sensory play is up there on my wish list when it comes to meeting someone new. Nothing feels better than a massage or a long foot rub.

3. Domination without pain. I like my men to be manly (not that there’s anything wrong with a submissive guy) however, I do like my bdsm on the lighter side where fun is king.

4. A playful lover. When I was younger I took sex way too seriously. Once I realized it wasn’t like the movies, and that it could be awkward at times, and down and dirty at others, the real enjoyment began.

5. Someone to grow with. This applies to every part of my life including the bedroom. Some people get too comfortable with a lover as time passes, and when sex gets stale the end is usually not far off.

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Do you have any sexual resolutions or kinky wishes for the new year? Please share in the comments!

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