Happy New Year Kink Lovers! Time to spread your kink wings with a few resolutions. We’re sure you’ve already come up with weird and wonderful things to try in the year ahead, but here are a few helpful ideas to help make them happen.
1. Switch it Up
Are you always a top, the dom that takes control? Why not give the power to your sub – just for one night. Playing in your lover’s shoes will only help you understand their position and strengthen your bond. Subs, enjoy the power… while it lasts.
2. Leave Your Comfort Zone
It’s easy to find your kink comfort zone and forget the exhilaration that comes with pushing limits and testing  boundaries. Ask your partner if there’s something they’ve wanted to try with you but were too afraid that you wouldn’t go for it. Surprise them, and say yes!
3. Join In
Perhaps you and your bdsm lover have been living and playing in your own little world, oblivious to the larger community. Why not find a playgroup, munch, or event planning committee to join. Meeting others that enjoy your passion will educate, expand, and enlighten.
4. Secret Fantasy Revealed
Even with a long-time partner, couples sometimes keep particular fantasies and desires to themselves for fear of being judged or denied. Take a chance, trust that your partner will listen and not judge, and maybe, just maybe your kink dream will come true.
5. Plan a Kink Vacation
Even if it’s just for a weekend getaway, it’s a great way to break up the long winter with a little bdsm fun. This can be a kink specific locale that caters to bdsm couples or singles. Why not role play the whole vacation in character. Get creative and enjoy!
6. Expand Your Kink Kit
If your whip is frayed or you’ve been using the same cuffs for years, it’s time to treat yourself. Create a wish list of toys and props you’ve always wanted to have in your collection. When you can afford new things, go wild. And when you can’t, go around your house on a bdsm scavenger hunt. You’ll be surprised… every room in the house has something you can use.
What are your kink resolutions? Will you keep them?
Tell us what you think