There are some toy box essentials that prove classics for their effectiveness, practicality, and the pleasure principle. The butt plug is a must-have for him, her, and them.
A butt plug is a rather non-erotic name describing exactly what it sounds like: a plug for your butt. It’s a tear-shaped, tapered toy with a flared base.
The design is butt specific for two reasons: the thinner point that gradually widens allows easy anal entry, and the flared plug part keeps the toy from being suctioned into the body.
Since your ass, and hers, come with several thousand nerve endings, it is very pleasurable to include anal stimulation during sex. Here’s why the butt plug is just the right toy.
8 Reasons to Use a Butt Plug
1. It’s widely available and affordable.
Any sex toy store brick and mortar or online will have a wide selection of butt plugs available.
Sure, you can buy diamond-encrusted anal toys, but a perfectly serviceable basic model can be five to twenty bucks. This makes butt-plug pleasure accessible to everyone.
2. They come in a range of sizes.
Not everyone wants a giant eggplant-sized toy up their ass hole, and even if you do, you’ve got to start somewhere if you’re new to anal penetration.
The basic butt plug is just a bit larger than an index finger with a bit more girth in the center. This means the toy is ideal for everyone to get in touch with their anal nerve endings, even if they aren’t particularly turned on by the idea of penis-in-anus sex or more extreme penetration.
3. Wearing it during penis-in-vagina sex heightens pleasure for both.
You can insert the butt plug and leave it there. For him, the pressure against the prostate can heighten his orgasm. For her, the pressure against the vagina wall increases the sensations in both channels.
4. Double penetration is hot for many women.
Whether she is dominant or submissive or neither, adding anal penetration to the mix amps up the temperature. This feeling of fullness is hard to explain to someone new to double penetration, but it’s otherworldly!
5. Butt plugs are great for anal training.
The teeny-tiny starter plug and the huge plugs available are all part of a spectrum of anal penetration. If you and your lover want to train her ass, or yours, to open wide and take a mad pounding, you’ll experiment with the whole range.
6. A butt plug is essential for sissification or pegging play.
If your ass is not used to getting fucked but she wants to take you that way, you’ll start with a butt plug before going up to the massive dildo in her strap-on harness. Strap-on fun is one of the most popular types of porn for a reason.
7. A butt plug with a horse hair tail is perfect for pony play.
Those of you into horseplay and pony costumes love butt plugs because it’s essential to wearing the tail. Lots of different plugs come with gorgeous hair attachments to perfectly resemble pony tails.
8. Butt plugs are great additions to dozens of other kinks.
Bondage is super sexy when you’re tied up with a plug in your aching ass. Forced orgasm BDSM is more extreme with anal stimulation added. Orgasm edging and orgasm denial can be excruciating with ass play incorporated, and humiliation games can make creative use of the simple flared anal toy. Being spanked or whipped with a plug up your ass is a whole different level of pleasure.
How do you incorporate the butt plug into kinky play? Let us know what to try next!
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