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Autosexual: 4 Ways to Play with Yourself

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What is Autosexuality?

What does it mean to be autosexual? Is that when someone thinks their car is sexy? Not exactly.

Autosexuality refers to an erotic love of self. People with this particular orientation get off on their own bodies above all else, and enjoy making love alone, just as much—if not more so—than with a partner.

Perhaps you’re thinking that in this day and age, when random hookups are frowned upon, autosexuality sounds pretty appealing. Why not give some of these self-directed play ideas a try and find out?

4 Autosexual Play Ideas

1. Masturbate in Front of the Mirror

Invest in a high-quality full-length mirror, place it in spot that will give you optimal views while still allowing for comfort, then go to town on yourself. Wear a costume if that’s your thing, or simply enjoy the beauty of your own nakedness. Set the mood with music and dim lighting, or put the spotlight on your favorite parts.

Do you love looking at your ass? Play between two mirrors that are facing one another. More of a cock man? Use a magnifying mirror to get an even closer look at your raging hard-on, in all its veiny glory.

Read: Mirror Mirror On the Wall, Who’s the Kinkiest One of All?

2. Star in Your Own One-Man Show

If you really want to savor the magnificence of your sexual self, set up a camera to record your masturbation sessions. Be the star of your own porn franchise!

Plan out elaborate autosexual scenarios or keep it simple. If you get off on the sounds of your own pleasure, make a ton of noise. Buy toys that can be enjoyed alone—a spanking or fucking machine, dildos with suction cup bottoms, nipple clamps—then have them feature heavily in your productions.

Read: Self-Bondage Ideas for Kinky Solo Play

One advantage of recording your autoerotic adventures is that you can watch them whenever you want.

3. Book Yourself an Erotic Photoshoot

Maybe you fancy yourself more of a traditionalist. If so, opt for a classic boudoir photoshoot. To get the most value for your money, choose a professional photographer who specializes in these things. Come to your appointment with poses in mind, or let the professionals inspire you with their expertise.

If you don’t want to drop that much cash, ask a trusted partner to do the job instead. Set the scene, using your own home as a backdrop, or the great outdoors! Just make sure you’re in a private setting.

4. Take Center Stage in Your Fantasies

The most powerful aphrodisiac is the mind, so why not simplify things and just imagine yourself in the throes of passion?

Write out your autosexual fantasies or keep them stored in your thoughts until it’s time to call them forth. Conjure up multiple partners to take part in the action, each of them existing solely to please you. Watch yourself give in to carnal bliss. How do you look? How is your body responding to all the pleasure being heaped upon you?

Return to your favorite fantasies as often as you like or make up new ones every time. The joy of fantasizing is that you can be the architect of your own desires.

For more inspiration on kinky play by yourself, read Solo BDSM: 5 Ways to Play Alone

What tips or techniques can you share for autosexual fun? Please share in the comments!

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