What’s your go-to resource when it comes to spicing up your masturbation routine? For many it’s porn, and why not? It’s quick, there’s a ton of it to choose from, and it’s pretty much guaranteed to do the trick. But how much porn can one person consume?
After a while, even your favorite videos can get boring and become incapable of giving you the inspiration you need. That’s when it’s time to get back to basics and think of all the other pleasure-inducing tools you have at your disposal. Here are some ideas to get you started.
4 Ways to Keep Masturbation Fresh
1. Bring Out the Toys
With the huge selection of sex toys available these days, it’s a great time to be kinky and single. Go online and search out whatever your heart desires. If you can think of it, chances are it exists.
If you don’t want to spend a ton of money, shop your house for things that can be used in the service of getting freaky. The fridge is a good place to start. Have your way with a glazed donut, tub of margarine, or a ripe melon. Let your imagination and curiosity guide you.
2. Explore Your Exhibitionist Tendencies
Masturbation doesn’t have to be a solitary activity, nor do you need a real-life partner to enjoy the thrill of doing it for an audience. Search the internet for a cam-sex site that caters to your fetishes, then show off all you want.
The key to making exhibitionism fun for all is consent. It’s important that you find people who are in to seeing what you have to offer. Flashing your neighbors or touching yourself on the bus isn’t okay. If the thought of being caught turns you on, request that type of role play from your camming partner.
3. Embrace Your Desire to Watch
Speaking of cam sites, there are plenty that exist for the sole purpose of letting you watch. Depending on which type you choose, you can see professional cam models put on a show, or spy on everyday couples getting it on for the camera.
Most sites will give you some idea of what you’re about to see, while some are more random. Search out your preferred fetish or sit back and let yourself be surprised. Just as exhibitionism requires consent, watching is only okay if the performers know they’re being observed and have signed off on it.
4. Build Your Fantasies
Perhaps the easiest and most effective way to enhance your masturbation routine is by digging into your fantasies and really building them up. Most kinky activities rely on a psychological back story to make them hot. Write your story out on paper or lay back and imagine it in vivid detail before you even touch yourself.
The more you can get yourself worked up beforehand, the more powerful masturbation session you will have. Bring out props or imagery that will get you in the right head space, then have at it. Who says you need a partner to have fun?
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