Looking for some hot pegging positions to try?
Pegging can feel amazing for the receiver of anal penetration, but also for the one doing the fucking. It can be a femdom thing, a power play or act of domination, a genderbending thing, or tender lovemaking.
While pegging has obvious pleasure benefits for the one getting fucked, it can be incredibly pleasurable to wear a cock, to penetrate a partner, to give pleasure this way, and to feel the dildo pushing against her vulva and clit as she thrusts.
Exploring a variety of pegging positions is the best way to find what feels best for both of you.
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Pegging Positions for Beginners
1. The Good Dog
She finds out why you love doggy style so much when she’s the one doing the fucking! The classic pegging position is simply doggy style, with you on all fours and her kneeling behind you wearing her silicone erection!
You are face forward with your ass in the air, and she is kneeling behind. This is easy access, comfortable for both of you, and gives her the full monty when it comes to the view!
This is excellent for beginners, experts, and first-timers too. If it’s your first time pegging, you should both know that it can take a very long time for the pegging receiver to relax their ass. There’s no hurry. Let the dildo go in very slowly while you open up. Always use loads of lube.
You can use a pillow to support yourself, under your chest. You can rub your cock to help you relax your ass, or she can reach around you easily to do it for you.
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2. The Bend Over Baby
This pegging position works wonders for her because she can stand and that makes a slow entry or a long fuck a piece of cake.
The receiver bends over the side of the bed. Depending on how your ass lines up with her cock, you can add a pillow or two to the edge of the mattress if the alignment isn’t perfect, or she can stand on rolled-up yoga mat. Prop one leg up on the bed so that your ass is spread nicely for her to fuck.
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3. The Reverse Missionary
Many pegging beginners assume woman on top (in this case, reverse missionary) won’t work as a pegging position or will be more difficult because your bottom is on the wrong side of you. Not so fast!
This face-to-face pegging position is actually amazing. It’s so intimate and easy to communicate the pace and how deep you want it. You just need a bit of flexibility and not much- enough to be able to lift your legs, either straight but more comfortably, bent, to give her butt access.
This is a wonderful pegging position for non-dominant leaning and femdom lovers alike. It can be “topping” or it can be loving and egalitarian.
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Advanced Pegging Positions
1. The Lap Dance
Oh my, how the tables have turned. Now she’s the one with the giant erection while you’re putting on the show and table dance.
Basically, she sits on a chair, stroking her cock, and you sit on her lap. You can straddle her face to face, ride side-saddle, or sit on her lap facing the same direction. You lower yourself onto her cock.
This pegging position is fine for beginners too with a bit of patience and experimentation. It isn’t complicated and if your thighs are steely, you’re good to go for as long as it takes. It’s a little more advanced simply because you are doing the work, which might be tricky if you’re still learning how to relax in order to take that cock. But it also means you get to control the pace and depth easily.
This pegging position can be performative for her pleasure—the whole private dancer thing is extremely erotic, with the power reversal and all.
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2. The Reverse Cowboy
Every pegging position is a reversed something or other! This is basically the reverse cowgirl, but you’re the one straddling her this time. You can squat, or kneel, taking her erect dildo in until its buried to the hilt. She can thrust from below and you can ride. This one works great for giving you easy access to play with your cock while you take hers.
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3. The Counter Top
One pegging position that gives her cock easy access and gives you a firm foundation is the kitchen counter as a seat. She’ll need to work a bit to support your legs and so will you, but other than that, you can spread them for varied sensations. Basically, you are sitting on the ledge, leaning back with your buttocks and legs spread while she stands in front of you and angles her cock to penetrate you.
This is a great pegging position because you can both watch the action. Seeing everything is super hot. It’s also a face-to-face position for easy kissing and intimacy, but raunchier than the reverse missionary pegging position.
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What are your favorite pegging positions? What was best for you as a beginner?
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