9 Public Sexual Roleplay Ideas

After trying some classics roleplay ideas at home, I got the urge to take sexual roleplay on the road.

Sometimes my lover and I go places in public and pretend not to know each other. This type of public roleplay makes the sex so much hotter when we get home. But what about actually having roleplay sex in public?

Here are some ideas for roleplaying in public, and in some cases having sex outdoors.

Ideas for Roleplay Sex in Public

Changing the scenery for a hookup can give a creative backdrop for a variety of kinks. Get ready for some fun public settings for naughty and kinky roleplay adventures.

Just remember to be discreet when necessary to stay out of hot water!

1. Can I Buy You a Drink?

Arrange to meet at a restaurant where she will sit at a table waiting for her “date” to arrive. You show up later and sit at the bar.

After some time, it is obvious that her date is standing her up, so you ask the bartender to send a drink. After she takes a sip, you wander over and ask if you can join her.

Wouldn’t you know—you have chemistry! You can continue the charade, or hightail it home.

Read: Sexual Roleplay: A Guide for Roleplay Beginners

2. Fifty Shades of Hay

Get ready for a hoedown or some frisky pony play in a real-life barn. Or take a tractor-pulled hayride to a pumpkin patch and watch the harvest moon.

You can wear your finest square-dancing denim threads, or please your cowboy-crazy lady in tight Levis and some gorgeous boots. The smell of horses and bushels of apples will add authenticity to your farm fantasy role play. Ride ‘em cowboy!

3. Sex in the City

If your lover has dark and dangerous fantasies of being snatched, overpowered, and ravaged by a stranger on the street, make all of her dreams come true with a little city staging.

Check out some urban possibilities for relative privacy ahead of time. She can dress up like a vixen or a shop-girl—whatever her thrill—before you “follow” her from a nearby café or pub to the mean streets.

Indulge in dirty public sex behind a tower of cardboard boxes awaiting morning recycling, or up against the wall behind a nightclub while you keep time with the pounding bass.

4. Call Me, Anytime

One of my favorite role play fantasies is that I am a highly paid escort, with rich men fighting for a date. It’s all about wearing Cuban stockings and strappy Jimmy Choo couture, and the idea that I’m so powerful over all men.

Your lover might have kinky call-girl fantasies of her own. You can stage a high-roller adventure by starting out at a casino and later heading to a kinky hotel room. Locations like a beat-up jalopy and a seedy motor inn can work just as well if you’re on a budget.

5. Bullfighting Fantasy

There’s something incredibly erotic to me about a hot Latin guy in skin-tight ballroom attire, waving a cape in the ring. The bullfight-inspired paso doble is one of the sexiest dances to recreate. Roleplay the parts in a park or vacant lot, then take the finale home.

Ever notice how hung most bullfighters are?  If you want to go all out, rent the authentic costumes—slippers, bolero jacket, butt-loving tights, and a full red skirt for her. Ay, caramba!

6. Does This Look Good on Me?

Pretend to meet at the mall while shopping for clothes and “bump” into each other at the lingerie shop.

You’re looking for a gift for your wife. She’s trying on a silk teddy and then a lacy bustier with garters. You tell her you’re in an open-relationship and shopping for a third, all the while telling her how sexy she looks.

Half the fun of this public sexual roleplay is watching the reactions of the salespeople.

7. Tie Her Up, Tie Her Down

For those into BDSM, keep it real with some grit and terror.

You can roleplay abduction, little girl lost, prison fantasies, and more in an abandoned school or factory. All those broken windows, piles of bricks, and rusty machinery is a natural dungeon for the darkest recesses of your imagination.

Read this kinky confession: Public Domination and Humiliation

8. Take Her to Church

Like a little sacrilege with your public sex? You can re-enact Madonna’s “Like a Prayer,” or your lover’s confession with priestly power games. Lots of churches have quaint cemeteries out back where you can meet, or you might be lucky enough to find an abandoned church where you can play out fifty shades of grace. Of course, be respectful of the space and anyone you might encounter.

With a little imagination and restraint, you can give an authentic backdrop to your roleplay.

9. Are These Your Panties?

This public roleplay takes a little extra effort, but I made it happen.

I brought a load of laundry to a laundromat across town. My lover showed up a half-hour later with his own load (containing my sexiest bra and pair of panties). When he goes to use the washing machine after me, he holds up my lingerie to ask if it’s mine. I say yes, and we start a steamy flirtation while others ogle.

Read: Tips for Practicing Consensual Exhibitionism

For some, public sexual roleplay is all about acting like strangers who’ve just met and putting on a show for others, who we hope will find it entertaining and titillating. The challenge is always to stay in character until we get home, even then, sometimes we’ve kept the charade up until we both orgasm.

For more kinky public sex ideas, see our article Sex in Public: Think Outside the Bedroom.

What’s the most exciting location you’ve used for a public sex roleplay?