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Role Play in Public Places: Bring Fantasy to Life

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My place, your place, or our Mistress’s dungeon?

Changing the scenery for a hookup can give a creative backdrop for a variety of fetishes and kinks. Here are some fun public settings for naughty and kinky role play adventures. Just remember to be discreet when necessary to stay out of hot water!

Ideas for Role Play Sex in Public

1. Fifty Shades of Hay

Get ready for a hoedown or some frisky pony play in a real life barn. Or take a tractor-pulled hay ride to a pumpkin patch and watch the harvest moon. You can wear your finest square-dancing denim threads, or please your cowboy-crazy lady in tight Levis and some gorgeous boots. The smell of horses and bushels of apples will add authenticity to your farm fantasy role play. Ride ‘em cowboy!

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2. Sex in the City

If your lover has dark and dangerous fantasies of being snatched, overpowered, and ravaged by a stranger on the street, make all of her dreams come true with a little city staging.

Check out some urban possibilities for relative privacy ahead of time. She can dress up like a vixen or a shop girl—whatever her thrill—before you “follow” her from a nearby café or pub to the mean streets. Indulge in dirty sex behind a tower of cardboard boxes awaiting morning recycling, or up against the wall behind a nightclub while you keep time with the pounding bass.

3. Call Me, Anytime

One of my favorite role play fantasies is that I am a highly paid escort, with rich men fighting for a date. It’s all about wearing Cuban stockings and strappy Jimmy Choo couture, and the idea that I’m so powerful over all men.

Your lover might have kinky call-girl fantasies of her own. You can stage a high-roller adventure by starting out at a casino and later heading to a kinky hotel room. Locations like a beat-up jalopy and a seedy motor inn can work just as well if you’re on a budget.

4. Bullfighting Fantasy

There’s something incredibly erotic to me about a hot Latin guy in skin-tight ballroom attire, waving a cape in the ring. The bullfight-inspired paso doble is one of the sexiest dances to recreate. Role play the parts in a park or vacant lot, then take the finale home.

Ever notice how hung most bullfighters are?  If you want to go all out, rent the authentic costumes—slippers, bolero jacket, butt-loving tights, and a full red skirt for her. Ay, caramba!

5. Tie Her Up, Tie Her Down

For those into BDSM, keep it real with some grit and terror. You can role play abduction, little girl lost, prison fantasies and more in an abandoned school or factory. All those broken windows, piles of bricks, and rusty machinery is a natural dungeon for the darkest recesses of your imagination.

Read this kinky confession: Public Domination and Humiliation

6. Take Her to Church

Like a little sacrilege with your public sex? You can re-enact Madonna’s “Like a Prayer,” or your lover’s confession with priestly power games. Lots of churches have quaint cemeteries out back where you can meet, or you might be lucky enough to find an abandoned church where you can play out fifty shades of grace. Of course, be respectful of the space and anyone you might encounter.

With a little imagination and restraint, you can give an authentic backdrop to your roleplay.

For more kinky public sex ideas, see our article Sex in Public: Think Outside the Bedroom.

What’s the most exciting location you’ve used for a public sex role play?

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