I wrote an article a while back called “Shave My Pussy”. I had a story to tell about an ex who loved doing my “dirty work”, we both loved it. It was foreplay at its best. When a man puts all his attention onto a woman’s pussy without cock or tongue involved, you bet she’s going to orgasm when all is said and done. She may not even let you finish, if she gets excited enough.
But you may wonder, how the hell do I shave a woman without hurting her? I admit, it’s tricky business, and I’m grateful to be very flexible when it comes to shaving; but oh, it’s so nice when a man offers. Here are three ways to go about grooming your lady…
Grooming the Girl
1. Waxing. Not my first choice, as it’s messy, even if you’ve done it before. There are a lot of waxing home-kits available at your local drugstore (and yes, they do come with instructions), but the technique might not be suited to first-timers. The problem is your lover may end up doing it herself if you get clumsy and that takes the fun out of it, right there. But… there is the added bonus of heat sensory play, and the pain factor for those of you who get off on that.
2. Shaving. This is where I think men can work it. They’ve had years of experience shaving themselves in the sensitive facial area, so they know how to take care. It’s not as messy as waxing, and you can set up shop on your bed with a nearby bowl of warm water, soap and towel. The bed offers a comfortable place for her to relax and enjoy the treatment, where she can stretch and bend when needed.
3. Plucking. Not my first choice, but it does offer that pain element that some bdsm relationships are after, as well as the ritual factor though not recommended for obsessive-compulsive types). I tried this method of hair removal once out of curiosity. When you grab hold of a speck of a hair with the tweezers, what you pull out is quite long; which is great because it takes a long time to grow back. Unfortunately, you do get some ingrown hairs.
Whether you decide to try waxing, shaving, or plucking… make it all about the lady. Create a sensual scene where she is comfortable and where you can concentrate on the task at hand. Sex doesn’t always have to follow, but from experience, it’s hard not to get turned on with this kind of intimacy.
Kinksters: Do you groom your gal? What is your preferred technique?
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