Let’s be real. Women love BAD boys. Even those of us who have a stand-up nice-guy boyfriend still fantasize about the bad boys we used to date or those we’d like to!
What is a bad boy? Every woman will have a different definition of “bad” when it comes to this sometimes-raunchy type of man who is going to ravish her beyond her wildest dreams. Below we’ll take a look at some of the different bad boy types.
Why do Women Like Bad Boys?
The fantasy is not always about his sexual performance but his behavior outside the bedroom. She might just get turned on watching him do whatever he does that she views as “bad.”
A woman may see the bad in a man in the way he looks, or the way he behaves, or the friends he keeps. What she sees as bad may not make her best friend’s toes curl but cringe. Like beauty, it’s all in the eye of the beholder.
6 Types of Bad Boys Women Love
Let’s talk about the kinds of bad boys women fantasize about, and why.
1. The Fighter
Some women find men who will fight for them physically a huge turn on. And maybe this is because it’s portrayed as sexy in movies and tv, rather than stupid and reckless.
Personally, I don’t think fisticuffs is ever the answer, but watching it on the screen can be exciting. I do love a good MMA bout between two ripped dudes—that’s my kind of kinky porn.
2. The Biker
If you’ve never road tripped across the country on a motorcycle with a woman holding you tight, you may not understand this appeal.
It’s a wild and free feeling to take to the open road with your lover. Motorcycles are just plain sexy—the design, the metal, the sound. Even the clothing is exciting to those with leather fetish. And there’s a certain confidence that is needed to ride that draws the ladies in. Men in motorcycle clubs will add an element of danger that some women will find even more enticing.
3. The Musician
When haven’t women loved musicians? It starts in adolescence with gals screaming, and crying, and fainting at concerts. Steven Tyler did it for me back in the day.
One thing I’ve noticed through the years is that all the musicians I’ve been with brought an artistic flair into the bedroom. They were open-minded, adventurous, and loved to please—maybe because they understand the importance of performance!
4. The Delinquent
Women sometimes like the mischievous sort of man who hasn’t quite grown up. It’s not necessarily who they want to settle down with, but these guys are often a lot of fun to hang around with.
I find there is no shortage of men with arrested development out there, and they usually are very open to experimenting in the bedroom with new kinks. And as long as their playful ways are not unlawful, and they take responsibility for their actions, a small dose of chaos is welcome.
5. The Player
This type of bad boy isn’t for me, but a lot of ladies are attracted to men who have women clamoring all around for their attention. It might be the challenge and competition of trying to be a man’s number one, or just a case of thinking he must be something special if that many women are circling (but sometimes status and money are all it takes).
In polyamory, having many different lovers doesn’t equate being a player, as long as you are open and honest with your partners. This lifestyle choice and attitude towards sexuality can be very attractive to poly and non-poly women interested in non-monogamy.
Read: Why Polyamory Works for Kinky People
6. The Dominant
A woman may not want to be told what to do in her day-to-day life, but she may want to obey and serve all night behind closed doors. She may get aroused while lying over your knee for a spanking. As long as everything is consensual, the dom-sub relationship can be a mutually satisfying one for both.
Read: 13 Ways to Dominate Your Submissive
If you are looking for a submissive woman to dominate, your best bet is to use kinky dating sites, as it can take a while for most women to reveal this side of herself. On kink apps and dating sites, people don’t want to beat around the bush to fulfill their desires.
Do you consider yourself a bad boy? What makes you a bad boy?
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