Inquiring minds want to know—how do you actually have sex with a sex doll?
As it turns out, having sex with a sex doll is closer to having actual sex than sex with any other sex toy.
Most sex dolls are created with simulation of sex in mind. While they don’t have living, breathing human bodies or responses and movements that a partner will have, it’s pretty damn close.
Prepare Your Doll for Sex
Dress Up and Styling Your Sex Doll
Fantasy dress-up is a big part of sex with your sex doll.
She looks fantastic in all of your favorite clothes and lingerie. You can measure her and buy panties, teddies, dresses, and shoes that she can model for you and you can take off when you’re ready to have sex. You can use different wigs or change her hairstyle with a brush and accessories.
Warm Up Your Sex Doll
Before you use your doll, you’ll want to warm her up. Warming your sex doll is a bit different than warming up a living female lover. Most sex dolls can be warmed before having sex for a more realistic simulation of sex.
Follow the manufacturer’s instructions—often, it means setting her on an electric blanket. Some silicone sex dolls can be given a warm shower for warm and wet sex. Others have another kind of warming mechanism.
Using Lube with Your Sex Doll
Follow the directions from your manufacturer and use recommended lubes. You’ll likely need lube for vagina sex, oral sex, anal sex, and titty fucking. You might enjoy the sensation of just the silicone or her skin against your skin and want to play without getting wet, but most sex-doll sex is facilitated with lube.
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How to Have Sex with a Sex Doll
1. Foreplay
You can prolong your sex session with your sex doll and increase your pleasure by kissing, stroking, touching, and massaging her. You can dress her up, then undress her slowly and look at her.
It’s best to follow the manufacturer’s directions for proper hygiene. Clean her before and after use according to the instructions you are given, to protect your sex doll for longevity and to protect you. She will be easy to clean and care for—she is designed for kissing, touching and fucking!
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2. Vaginal Sex
The most common way to use a sex doll is to have vaginal sex with her.
Your sex doll’s pussy was designed for exactly this purpose. Some sex dolls have a special silicone sleeve that goes into her pussy that can be removed for easy cleaning. Her vagina will look and feel realistic. It will be soft and fleshy with anatomically correct labia and a vaginal orifice.
Some sex dolls come with a vagina warming tool. You’ll want to use this before going in.
Basically, to have sex with your sex doll vaginally, you will simply assume a comfortable position, apply lube to your cock or her pussy or both, and slide your dick inside. Her pussy will probably be tighter than a human pussy. Overall, it will be very similar to a real vagina.
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3. Anal Sex
Most sex dolls love having anal sex! Most are designed with an anal orifice ready for fucking. She may have a sleeve for her ass, too, that you can pull out later for cleaning.
Having anal sex with your sex doll will need a bit of lube and will be a tight fit. You can finger her asshole or penetrate her with your cock.
4. Oral Sex
Most sex dolls have mouths designed for oral sex. You can use lube to make her mouth wet. Enhanced modern features include a tongue!
You’ll love sliding your cock into her mouth, and she will love deep throating if that’s your thing!
You can enjoy oral sex on her pussy too, licking her labia and pussy. Use flavored lube, and make sure you’ve cleaned her!
5. Sex Doll Handjobs
Most sex dolls have poseable hands and can be used for handjob action. Put some lube on her hands or on your cock, then move her hand up and down your dick, or hold her hand still while you thrust your cock into her hand.
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6. Titty Fucking Your Sex Doll
Your sex doll loves a nice titty fuck! She can hold her tits together for your cock if you hold her arms in place, or you can squeeze and caress her titties while you push them together and thrust your dick between them.
7. Sex Doll Role Play
Role play is an amazing way to have sex with your sex doll. She is open to all of your fantasies and kinks, to new experiences, to gentle and rough roles.
You’ll need to use a bit of imagination if you want to play the submissive partner, but whatever your tango, she’s into it. You can voice play her roles while she dresses and acts the part.
Having sex with your sex doll through role play gives you access to trying out different adventures. If you usually feel self-conscious during role play or just want to practice, using a sex doll can improve your acting chops for encounters with kinky lovers.
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Sex Doll Positions
You can have sex with most silicone sex dolls or TPE sex dolls in any position you like. She probably can’t stand on her own, so prop her safely and take care not to overpower her if you want to fuck standing up.
You can move her arms and legs into your favorite sex positions for fucking. Most positions that a normal human can achieve are ones your sex doll can simulate.
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