It’s been a while since anyone asked me to douse myself in a bowl of cake batter, but here we are.
What is Sploshing?
Sploshing is a subset of the wet and messy fetish (WAM). WAM fetishists find it sexually arousing to see someone covered in wet, messy substances. Some have a preference for clothing, skimpy clothing, or nudity along with the splosh, while others participate fully clothed.
A Variation of Wet and Messy Fetish
Someone with a WAM fetish may be turned on by a variety of wet and messy products, or it may be very specific: water, whipped cream, cake, mud, baby food, ketchup, raw eggs, pudding, shaving cream, paint, shampoo, oil, or slime are some options.
A preference for bodily fluids or messes like urine, G-spot squirting, feces, vomit, or cum are wet and messy indeed, but considered as a separate kink. Hygrophilia is the name for fetishes involving bodily fluids. For more details see our list of over 120 fetishes.
Sploshing on the other hand, is basically the wet and messy fetish but only as it pertains to food.
It may seem like the sploshing kink is specific and rare, and maybe there are very few people who masturbate with mustard or want women to sit on a cake. But a soft-core erotic element is common in some popular theatrical sports: think about mud wrestling and wet t-shirt contests. They might seem corny, but most of us find such spectacles sexy.
Read: My Kinky Cake-Sitting, Face-Sitting Experience.
Sploshing for Kink & Giggles
Like many of you, quite a bit of my sex life has gone online. I’m currently limiting my in-person partners and exploring new possible lovers virtually. One of my new friends wanted to have some kinky sploshing fun, so I pulled one of my handy spare shower curtains out of the closet, laid it out in front of the webcam, and got busy whipping up some carrot muffin goo.
There is a certain element of humor or slapstick that goes along with the sploshing thing. While some kinks seem funny, the fetishist is often not amused when others are. But WAM aficionados usually enjoy the humorous, playful aspect of sploshing even as they are becoming sexually aroused.
That’s been my experience, especially when I can participate in a kink for someone and not have to make it too precious or take it too seriously. It’s fun, and I can enjoy the performative aspect or the playfulness even if the thing itself doesn’t arouse me.
I’m not turned on by banana bread or pie throwing, but happy to be giving and game if that’s what float’s my partner’s boat. It turns out, playing with food is fun, and the sensation of copious amounts of muffin batter sliding down my body is actually amazing.
So give it a try! Sploshing is generally speaking a very safe way to play, and one that is easy to do with hands off of each other, either in person or on camera.
Read: 7 Kitchen Kinks for Hungry Lovers.
Watch Where You Splosh
The biggest danger is in the substance itself—pushing sugary substances around a woman’s vulva is never a good idea because it can cause yeast infection or other PH imbalances. You want to avoid getting anything in anyone’s eyes, and you want to be cautious about slipping and falling.
Other than that, the only real challenge is how to handle the mess.
A tarp or shower curtain on the floor works wonders, or have the performer stand right in the bathtub. Keep the drain in so you can scoop out the stuff after and not clog the pipes. Once you’ve removed the bulk of it, it’s just an easy rinse, then watch her lather up again, this time with soap and water. I also recommend a nonslip mat if the subject is going to be standing or moving around.
Looking for more sensation play ideas? See our Sensation Play Guide for Beginners.
Is sploshing your jam? How do you enjoy this wet and messy fetish?
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