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Poll: When Do You Tell a Woman about Your Kinks?

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With decades of dating experience, I have a multitude of stories when it comes to kink reveals. In some instances, I’ve barely blinked an eye at what a man has revealed, while at others… let’s just say they’ve left a mark.

There’s no rules about how and when to tell someone about your kinks, fetishes, fantasies, and general sexual proclivities—except perhaps to follow common sense and what your gut tells you to.

You’re obviously not going to tell your new sexy-as-fuck boss that you love spanking and would love to give it to her over your knee, and you’re probably not going to wait ten years into a marriage to tell your wife that you’ve always been bi and have been getting it up the ass on the down low… but who knows.

Talking about our kinks isn’t easy, unless you’re at a BDSM munch in the kink community, surrounded by like-minded folks. Most of us, especially newbies, use mainstream sites or casual encounters to hopefully meet compatible mates for hookups and more.

So, when is it appropriate? I’m sure our readers will have many different thoughts and ideas about this one. Take our poll, and check back for results!

When Do You Tell a Woman about Your Kinks?

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