Do you have a penetration kink?
Penetration is so integral to standard sexual intercourse that it feels odd thinking of it as a kink. But nothing works in my imagination as quickly and reliably to get me off. And in many sexual relationships, I’ve felt under-penetrated.
There is such a range of possibilities for the good ol’ “in and out” that it can feel like a bit of a rip off if a sexual encounter doesn’t go beyond the basic entry and release.
Most modern men have moved beyond feeling threatened by dildos. Many are enthusiasts who love watching women on film (or in front of them) masturbate with an array of shapes and sizes. Using some on me gives a very pleasurable range of sensations.
But there are lots of other, er, objects of affection, and a vast variety of specific penetration kinks.
Read: Objectophilia: Object Fetishes and Kinks
Penetration and Insertion Kinks
Judging by how many videos there are online, the “gaping butthole” is popular. This being when a woman is so horned up that she needs huge cocks, fists, or toys for anal penetration, resulting in an open hole that some viewers love to look inside of.
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Extreme vaginal penetration is another widespread fetish, with both men and women getting excited to explore the boundaries of how much width and length a woman can take.
Another penetration fetish some share is for objects that are extreme in ways other than size. I’m not excited by the physical damage that results from using splintery two by fours, broken bottles, broom handles, or claw hammers, but to each their own.
Read: 8 Tips for Extreme Penetration
I personally love to experience different objects. It’s not that I’m attracted to the object itself. It’s the novelty or taboo that turns me on, as well as the ingenuity of the lover who comes up with what to try next.
Object Insertion Kink Ideas
Some of the phallic objects that have been pushed inside me…
Hairbrush handle
Hairbrush handles are very popular among young women who are too shy to buy sex toys.
Vegetables
Carrots, cucumbers, etc. Vegetable insertion is a fetish of its own for some. I like the different sensations. Some have great dexterity and are as thin as fingers, and chubbier ones give a full feeling. It’s true that your garden variety phallic symbols can’t compete with the real thing, but a freezing cold cucumber straight from the crisper is a unique kind of icy torture.
Read: 7 Kitchen Kinks for Hungry Lovers
Popsicles
Same sweet treat as above, with a wonderful melting pool that can be lapped up by a warm tongue! This one is gorgeous, but proceed with caution, as sugar can be detrimental to a woman’s natural chemistry and put her out of commission. Not good.
Read: Cold Temperature Play Ideas
Kielbasa
Food again!? Well, it’s usually what’s handy… and once when I was so aroused, I needed to keep being fucked after it was over. But you really don’t want all those salts and nitrates entering your lady, so use a condom if you play hide the sausage.
Read: 7 Foods for Sex
Sculpture
The abstract bird in flight shape was conducive to cautious insertion, and the taboo of using fine art got me off in a hurry. Knowing the work continues to be displayed at my lover’s office, with unsuspecting business men admiring it during boring meetings, gives the memory a little something extra. And I know whenever my ex is in his boardroom, he will remember me. That’s hot.
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What are your favorite insertion objects for penetration play?
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