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5 Reasons Kinky People Use Niche Dating Sites

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Most people start online dating using mainstream sites that are free. That’s what I did when I first joined the world of online dating six years ago. Now I use a few different niche sites to find what I’m looking for, depending on my mood or current lifestyle choices.

5 Reasons to Use Niche Dating Sites

  1. Find your kink-compatible partner. Even if your fetish or fantasy or BDSM interests are tame, it can be hard to find a lover who shares your sexual proclivities. I went a long time without a man in my life with a foot fetish, so I tried FootFetishDating.com and found a guy who was into foot worship.
  2. Explore different sides of your personality. Niche sites are perfect for acting out various roles you love to play. Maybe you want to act submissive, but every woman you meet prefers her man to be dominant. Or maybe you saw some pony-play porn and want to wear a harness and saddle.
  3. Meet lovers for casual connections. While you will find women on mainstream sites who are looking for hookups, there are sites that only cater to casual dating. You don’t have to deal with so many rejections from women who want more on sites like FindHookups.com.
  4. Fulfill secret fantasies and fetishes. I do keep a profile on a mainstream site that I use when I’m looking for something long-term, but to fulfill my sudden desires for dirty, no-strings sex, I prefer niche dating sites.
  5. Explore a different lifestyle. Maybe you’ve found monogamy isn’t for you after all, and you’d like to meet polyamory people. Or maybe you’ve read about swinging, and you and your girlfriend think that would be fun. There’s a site for every lifestyle and community you can think of, where you will find like-minded individuals and couples.

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