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7 Sexy Gifts for Your Kinky Lover

Women love gifts, especially unexpected ones. The problem is, men often lack creativity when it comes to buying presents for their woman. Flowers and chocolates are fine, but if you’re putting in the effort, then you might as well get her something you both will enjoy;) A sexy surprise can spice things up, turn her on, and leave her wanting more.

1. Erotic Fiction – There is as much online erotic fiction as there is porn, but it can’t compare to an actual book that she can read and masturbate to. Take a cue from her library. If she loves classic literature – Anais Nin; if she digs Harlequin Romance – Jackie Collins. Reading about sex makes a woman think about and crave sex more.

2. Toys – Every woman has fantasies, and you will know them depending on how well you know her. If it’s a new lover, you may already have seen what she keeps in her toy box – how kinky she is. Or maybe you’ve been sexting and flirting about her preferences. Indulge her with a toy she wouldn’t think of buying for herself or something that will help her experience an unfulfilled fantasy.

3. Lingerie – If you’re shopping alone, discreetly check out the bra and panty size she wears beforehand. There’s nothing worse than her opening a box of lingerie, loving it, but then realizing it’s too big, ouch! Or this can be something you do together. She’ll enjoy trying things on for you, knowing you’ll have to wait until you get home, or at least to the car, to satisfy your arousal.

4. Sex Games – I remember playing strip crazy eights when I was younger and this can still be fun, but now there are so many sex video, card, and board games. These work as another kind of foreplay that is sure to make your lover wet.

5. Sensory – Think about her five senses and how best to stimulate them. Does she enjoy being tickled, the cold wet sensations of ice sliding along her naked body, or the experience of a deep hot oil massage.

6. Spa – Women love to be pampered. Find a nearby spa and fill out a gift card that will fulfill some of your needs at the same time. If you have a foot fetish, give have a pedicure, or maybe you want to treat her to her first Brazilian wax.

7. Boudoir Photos – this is something a woman thinks about, but rarely follows through with. Sure, polaroid photos and text message pics are fun, but there’s nothing like having a professional erotic photo of your lover to admire. She will enjoy being the centre of attention during the shoot – arousal that will make its way back to the bedroom.

Remember: Thoughtfulness goes a long way with women and the returns are often sexual.
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