Let’s say you are in a semi-serious relationship and want to try something new or a little kinky. As any experienced lover will tell you, leading your partner toward a brand new area of enjoyment depends mostly on how confident you are about your own prowess and whether or not you can back up your bravado in the bedroom. That’s why your first foray into BDSM roleplay, anal sex, threesomes or other kinds of kink should always be given a test-ride by someone other than your future bride!
Hooking up for a one night stand or a no-strings-attached fling with someone you met discreetly online gives you the opportunity to try anything you want without any potential awkward moments. If things don’t work out the way you like, just leave her and start fresh with someone else. If you decide it isn’t as much fun as you thought it was, nobody will ever know unless you decide to tell them later. Best of all, there are so many hot girls hoping to try new things online that your willingness to experiment sexually is actually a big plus in the hookup dating pool.
There are girls online right now who want to experiment with rope play, bondage, group sex and just about anything you might fantasize about. All they want is someone to ask them if they are up for it, and you’re in exactly the same situation. Timing matters in life, and that rings true with no-strings-attached dating.
Help each other out by hooking up now, getting your own game in order by practicing with a partner, and then head back to your main squeeze if that’s what you really want to do. Of course the only danger is that you’ll find a hookup even hotter than the girl you used to want most… but finding that out now sure makes a lot more sense than waiting until you’ve been married for a few decades to decide you’d rather be fucking someone else!
Also read: BDSM Pre-Meeting Questions to help you find a compatible kinkster.