I know most men dream about being with two women when it comes to threesomes, but I have a bi-curious side to me that has never been satisfied. I have a steady girlfriend and I would never go behind her back, but I fantasize about having sex with her and my best friend D at the same time. I would want to watch them before joining, when I’m horny and can’t take it anymore.
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I think my girlfriend would actually be into it, as we’ve had threesomes before, albeit only ffm threesomes. D on the other hand has never been with a man, so I can’t be sure. Is there any point in pursuing this fantasy… I just can’t get it out of my head. – Martin
Martin is right, ffm threesomes are men’s #1 fantasy. And it’s become a lot easier to make it happen with the wide range of niche dating sites out there like FindaThreesome.com.
If you’re already enjoying threesomes with your girlfriend, it’s not a great leap to switch to two men and a lady. Most women would love to have an mmf triad, but so many men fear being labelled gay even if there’s no sexual connection with the other man. Get over it guys—treat your lady to a double feature!
Now to address the fantasy of sex with your best friend (who you know or believe to be straight). My advice is a straight-up NO. Sex with friends is very risky. You’re risking your friendship for one night that may or may not go well. Keep the best friend and girlfriend fantasy as jerk-off material, and go seek an anonymous third to enjoy the reality.
You and your girlfriend will have fun picking a third together, whether at a local club, on vacation (vaycay sex is awesome and discreet), or from a niche dating site. Join a site, create a couples profile that states clearly what you both are looking for. You may even find an ongoing threesome arrangement that satisfies both of you!
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