Every woman has a sexy inner wild child. You may have already met this delectable diva, but maybe not. For some ladies, it takes meeting the right man at the right time in her life to feel comfortable enough to explore her kinky desires and fantasies. This might be a matter of getting older and more comfortable in one’s own skin. If you’ve ever been with a cougar, then you know what I’m talking about.
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If you’re with someone who you think hasn’t unleashed her inner sexpot, here’s a few tips that will help get the fires burning.
5 Tips to Bring Out Her Kinky Side
1. Buy her sexy lingerie. Looking sexy makes you feel sexy. Of course, you’re not going to show up on a first date with a red lace thong, but once you’re intimate why not surprise her with a sexy bra and panty duo (secretly check her size) or a lace tedddy. If role playing is of interest, you could even go so far as to buy something like a nurse’s outfit or a school girl’s uniform.
2. Share your kinky fantasies. The number one reason people are reluctant to show their kinky selves is for fear of rejection. They worry a partner will think they’re a weirdo, but someone has to get the ball rolling. If you take the first step, your willingness to be vulnerable will likely be met with the same. It’s worth the risk!
3. Indulge her desires. If it’s not a hard boundary, give her what she wants. By meeting her halfway, you will likely have your fantasies fulfilled too. If she wants to wear a strap-on and straddle you from behind, why not try it… you might like it. And isn’t part of the fun of sex, turning your partner on.
4. Take her on a BDSM vacation. Research kinky resorts and clubs that offer workshops, sexy suites, and everything else like booked time with dominatrixes and dungeons. Yes, these do exist… and all around the world. You’ll find everything on the spectrum from kink lite to hardcore BDSM.
5. Shop for toys together. You can either do this in the privacy of your home at an online store like the Kink Lover’s BDSM & Sex Toy Store, or visit your local XXX shop for kinky goodies. Watch her reactions to everything from vibrators to anal beads to spanking tools. Take mental notes for planning kinky playtime.
How do you get your lover into the kinky mood?
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