Meet Women Who Like Pegging Men

A reader shares his interest in strapon sex, and asks where to find women who like pegging.

Dear Jamie,

I get really turned on by the idea of a woman penetrating me with a strap-on cock. I love watching kinky porn where lesbians are using strap-on dicks to fuck each other, and I’ve tried some where the guy is getting fucked too.

It seems that most of the pegging porn featuring a guy shows him to be submissive. I don’t mind a woman taking charge, it’s hot, but I’m not at all into the kind of hardcore femdom or sissy-boy play that most pegging porn seems to be. I am not into humiliation and don’t see this as humiliating.

To each their own, I just want a woman to fuck my ass. Is kinky strap-on sex always about BDSM? Where can I find a woman who loves pegging who isn’t necessarily a dominatrix or into sissy-boy stuff? I’m a regular guy who enjoys all the usual stuff like getting my dick sucked, licking her pussy, and penis-in-vagina sex. I just want a bit more.

– Ted, 31

Find Women into Pegging

Ted, there are lots of women who have discovered the joys of penetrating a guy with a strap-on! Some are into femdom or BDSM play, and some are just versatile, curious and adventurous.

It’s true that a lot of pegging and strap-on porn has a femdom take. While a dominant woman really turns me on, I’m actually turned off by humiliation stuff—it’s a fine line for me. Commanding the sexual stage turns me on, humiliating the sub turns me off. So finding the right pegging videos can be tricky. I recommend bookmarking them when you find ones that work for you.

That said, by revamping your online dating profile to be as specific as your needs, you’re not going to have a problem finding women who like pegging and want to give that ass a good fucking.

Better yet, get started at a site that celebrates pegging and kinky sex:

Pegging Dating Sites for Strapon Lovers

At the link above, you’ll find our recommendations on where to meet pegging women, including good options for pegging without domination.

State basically what you told me here—that you love watching women pegging each other, and you want to experiment with women in strapons fucking you. Be clear that you aren’t interested in domination or humiliation, but in mutual pleasure.

If you date women you meet through friends or work, it can be tricky to know when to bring it up. You don’t want to frustrate her by leaving it too long and wasting her time if she isn’t kinky at all. But you don’t want to perv out on her by announcing you want her to harness up and fuck you in the ass when you’re sharing your first pizza.

It’s best to simply mention that you are sexually adventurous or kinky and looking for like minded women. Then, if she’s looking for another kind of relationship, she can bow out politely. If she’s curious, she’ll ask you to be more specific.

Read: 5 Signs She Might Want to Peg You

Good luck in your adventures as you meet women into pegging. Let us know how it goes!