Find a Femdom Seeking Submissive Men
Wondering how to find a femdom or local dominatrix? Whether you desire a brief encounter or an ongoing relationship, what you seek is out there!
Meeting someone you’ll have a special connection with can be tough. And for those of us who have specific kinks we’d like to explore, it can seem even more difficult to find that diamond in the rough.
If you want to meet a femdom who will dominate you and allow you to serve her, you’re going to have to look for her. A sexy domme seeking satisfaction isn’t just going to drop into your lap. If this is your true desire then there are ways to go about it.
Have you been to a munch? A munch is an informal gathering of people in the BDSM lifestyle who meet to hang out, meet new people, discuss matters relating to their community, or just chat in general. There’s no fetish clothing usually and nothing sexual is going on. But there is talking and this is a great opportunity to meet others who will compliment your submissive streak.
You can read more about munches here: The BDSM Munch
Another option for meeting a femdom in “real life” would be to attend fetish nights at local clubs, fetish parties, or even related conventions. Basically, you have to increase your odds by putting yourself into situations where a femdom might be, but also in a situation where you’ll be able to recognize her as such either by her clothing or how she conducts herself.
Want to be even more proactive? If you don’t feel like answering a creepy newspaper ad or paying for an encounter, you’d best give a kinky dating site a chance. These are basically just dating sites that have marketed themselves to people interested in BDSM or particular fetishes, and can offer an excellent way to meet lots of femdoms and local domme women with little effort. You are still going to have to woo that goddess, but at least you have found her and others like her!
See our list of the Best BDSM Dating Sites.
I wouldn’t say that meeting a femdom online is the better option, but if you are serious about finding a femdom then you should add a site like FindaFemdom.com, or an even bigger site like BDSMdate.com to your toolbox. It could end up being the best investment you make in your search. Consider it an additional way to meet the right dominant woman, who may be just outside your circle.
So in the end, I think it’s important to be active by either being more social and possibly joining a femdom dating site to get more exposure to dommes who live near you. It’s not always easy to identify a sexually dominant woman or dominatrix, so put yourself where people are open about their desires and lust for a submissive man.
Got any other tips for meeting femdoms? I’d love your thoughts in the comments below!
rob
June 28, 2019 at 9:08 am
I’m looking for soft femdom. Anyone out there?
OmarK
April 2, 2019 at 9:34 am
21 sub looks for a fem domme is this the place? I’m so tired of looking.
Jeff
March 24, 2019 at 7:52 pm
23-yr-old submissive male needing a dominant woman.
missy
March 4, 2019 at 12:13 pm
missDOMmissy here to DOMINATE your life because you’ll want me too. Want me to run your life?
peggingvirgin1
March 4, 2019 at 9:14 am
Hello to any dominas out there. I’m ready to be a pegged for the first time… looking for the woman who will pop my cherry with a strap-on. I’ll be your slave. You can be very rough and dominate me and pound my tight ass into submission. I’ll even suck the dildo afterwards. You can fuck my slutty mouth with it too, then fuck me again and again until I can’t stand it.
Holly
March 11, 2019 at 3:13 pm
Thanks for your comment! This is a blog that doesn’t allow any personal information to be published. Please check out BDSMdate.com if you would like to meet a dominant woman.
peggingvirgin1
March 4, 2019 at 9:09 am
Will you punish me? I’ve never been pegged, but I really want to be so damn hard. Will you be my first, please? I want it rough as it can possibly be. I want my tight ass drilled hard as fuck because my fingers just don’t cut it anymore.
Briana lee
December 31, 2018 at 4:44 am
Add me up on hangouts… I need to punish you, and u will be my slave.
Rick
March 3, 2019 at 6:52 am
What do you want me to do, master?
David Moore
December 14, 2018 at 6:25 pm
I am a 31-year-old sub looking for a dominatrix to tie me up tight, gag me and use me in every twisted way she can think of. I have no limits that I’ve reached and am willing to be a 24/7 bondage bitch for the right Dom.
Josh
November 19, 2018 at 11:30 am
Mistress Anne, you sound like the Dominatrix I have needed to please for some time. I am single, work hard, clean, your slave any time, and not a creep or weirdo. I am not clueless and have learned much, but there is always more that can be learned. If I am fortunate to become your sub, I will follow your every command and look forward to your pain. As you have clearly stated All belongs to you as it should be and knowing what you want and stating it is even better. I look forward to future blogs or chats. I realize this site is not for dating and would not want to abuse it in that way, however if you have another way of contacting each other please let me know.
Anne
October 30, 2018 at 11:46 am
I’m mistress Anne, a 37-year-old pro dominatrix/fetrix. I rule with a rod of iron… your pain is my pleasure. I am self-employed. I require a slave for total commitment. No creeps or weirdos. Want decent guy who isn’t clueless… a slave that would be my personal property and would only serve and obey my every command, and his humiliation will be for my own pleasure. I will cross-dress you, and you will be entitled to have my collar and enjoy my ever-ready strap-on too. Above all your cock will belong to me and will be in my CBT lock-up, only to be released when I please. I will train you, and you will be very happy and loyal to me always. Within US only, as I can’t have a slave that won’t visit me. ANYONE WHO MESSAGES ME WITHOUT ADDRESSING ME IN THE CORRECT WAY WILL BE DELETED UNREAD… MANNERS FOR MISTRESS ALWAYS!
kmslave143
January 21, 2019 at 1:07 pm
Mistress Anne, I’m really excited and new here.
Chuck
February 16, 2019 at 1:24 pm
Hello Mistress. I would love to know more about you, please. I’m from Delaware.
Rick
March 3, 2019 at 6:50 am
I would like to be caught in your trap and become yours for life. But I am straight.
Anthony Kuone
March 5, 2019 at 5:19 am
Hello mistress Anne. Would you please make me your sex slave. I crave a dildo fucking my tight ass. I’ll submit to your every demand. Please give me my first pegging.
Holly
March 12, 2019 at 4:33 pm
Hi Anthony. We appreciate all your comments. This is a blog, not a dating site, that cannot publish any personal information such as emails or phone numbers. Please check out BDSMdate.com if you would like to meet women to fulfill your fantasies and fetishes.
rob
October 27, 2018 at 3:40 am
I’m 65… that doesn’t mean I’m dead or without imagination or desires. I’d like someone to serve. I can accept whatever you wish to serve to me (within limits). I can take some pain and more in a sexual situation, and I will serve you with a very desirous tongue.
sam lebau
August 23, 2018 at 9:34 am
Orgasms are for women chastity is for men
badger1080
July 22, 2018 at 5:22 pm
I’ve been looking for that a LONG TIME. Sure would like one.
will
June 1, 2018 at 7:58 am
Inexperienced sub male would like to meet dominant, unattached female for domination punishment.
Briana lee
December 31, 2018 at 4:41 am
Add me up on hangouts for your punishment.
peggingvirgin1
March 4, 2019 at 9:06 am
Hello Briana Lee.
Glynn
May 9, 2018 at 11:13 pm
I am looking for an older lady to use a strap-on on me to see if I would like it. I am 74 and my dick doesn’t work anymore, but I still love sex.
Mark
February 3, 2018 at 4:12 pm
Hi there I’m looking for a dominatrix who is an expert in breath play.
Holly
February 5, 2018 at 1:55 pm
Hi Mark! This site is a blog, not a dating site. We do not publish personal information. Check out BDSMdate.com to meet women who are dominant and also interested in kinky hookups!
John Lynch
November 24, 2017 at 9:21 pm
I am an older submissive looking for a very discreet play friend only, and her desires Will be first considered. I’m a nice, safe guy looking for an older
trustworthy lady for safe and secret play. I know there must be a well groomed mature lady who gets excited thinking about a nice guy reporting to her, and once the door closes she has me either naked or humiliated and restrained so tight there is no way that I can free myself as my ankles and hands are tied or cuffed for real. Now she instructs me to pleasure her, especially orally. She enjoys attire like long silk stockings, garter belts, spike high heels, and heavy makeup, especially thick red lipstick to leave prints on my mouth and face. She is also armed with a leather strap or whip to make me beg her to stop inflicting pain with. She enjoys making me kiss inside her upper legs above her stockings and eventually getting to where she enjoys my tongue most. In conclusion, I will be her real sex slave.
ed
September 30, 2017 at 7:12 pm
im a tottal submissive..love to be your sissy slut
Briana lee
December 31, 2018 at 4:39 am
Add me up on hangouts.
Rich
August 21, 2017 at 11:19 am
I am new to this and looking for a mistress. This sounds like so much fun.
Glenn
August 7, 2017 at 2:40 pm
I am a 55-yr-old submissive black male who craves a REAL dominant femdom. Can someone help me with this? I have to be discreet.
Jasmine
July 26, 2018 at 10:14 am
Where are you located?
kmslave143
January 21, 2019 at 1:03 pm
I’m from India, if you are looking for a slave.
T
March 16, 2019 at 3:24 am
Where are you from?
Delia
August 17, 2018 at 8:03 am
Contact me
Holly
August 17, 2018 at 8:56 pm
Hi Delia. Sorry, but we are unable to publish any personal information such as emails.
joe
October 30, 2015 at 4:42 am
I love to please my ladies and treat them like queens. I’ve never tried this, but I’m anxious to explore it.
Taylor
July 21, 2017 at 4:24 pm
Well you should try it with me 😉
Anthony
June 20, 2018 at 2:51 pm
Hello Taylor, I would love to try it with you 🙂
Joshua
August 13, 2018 at 6:09 pm
Can I try it too ❤️
poo-poo baby
February 11, 2015 at 7:24 pm
I’m so tired of the horse shit, I’m for real. I want what I crave.
Nuts
June 23, 2015 at 12:26 am
Hey Kevin, nobody wants to shit on you. Fuck off.