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Wondering how to find a femdom or local dominatrix? Whether you desire a brief encounter or an ongoing relationship, what you seek is out there.

Meeting someone you’ll have a special connection with can be tough. And for those of us with specific kinks we’d like to explore, it can seem even more difficult to find that diamond in the rough.

But rest assured, their are femdoms looking for subs in every city. Here’s are some ideas for finding yours.

How to Find a Local Femdom

If you want to meet a femdom who will dominate you and allow you to serve her, you’re going to have to look for her. A sexy femdom isn’t just going to drop into your lap.

If this is your true desire, there are ways to go about it.

1. Meet Femdoms at a Munch

Have you been to a munch? A munch is an informal gathering of people in the BDSM lifestyle who meet to hang out, meet new people, discuss matters relating to their community, or just chat in general.

There’s no fetish clothing usually and nothing sexual is going on. But there is talking and this is a great opportunity to meet others who’ll compliment your submissive streak.

You can read more about munches here: What is a BDSM Munch

2. Femdom Dating Sites

Want to be even more proactive?

If you don’t feel like answering a creepy newspaper ad or paying for an encounter, you’d best give a femdom dating site a chance.

These femdom sites are basically just dating sites that have marketed themselves to people interested in BDSM. They offer an excellent way to meet lots of femdoms and local dominant women with little effort.

You are still going to have to woo that goddess, but at least you’ve found her and others like her!

My two favorite places for femdom dating are FindaFemdom.com, and the kinky playground at BDSMdate.com.

You can learn more details about both of these femdom sites in our article:

Best BDSM Dating Sites

I wouldn’t say that meeting a femdom online is the better option, but if you are serious about finding a femdom then you should add a femdom dating site to your toolbox. It could end up being the best investment you make in your search. Consider it an additional way to find a dominatrix, who may be just outside your circle.

3. Find a Femdom at Fetish Nights

Another way to find femdom hookups would be attending fetish nights at local clubs, fetish parties, or even related BDSM conventions.

Basically, you have to increase your odds by putting yourself into situations where a femdom might be, but also in a situation where you’ll be able to recognize her as such either by her clothing or how she conducts herself.

Read: How to Find BDSM Events

In the end, I think it’s important to be active by being social and possibly joining a femdom dating site to get more exposure to femdoms near you. It’s not always easy to identify a sexually dominant woman or dominatrix, so put yourself where people are open about their desires and lust for a submissive man.

For more ideas on how to find a femdom or dominatrix, read Jamie’s article: Where to Find a Dominatrix

Got any other tips on how to find a femdom? I’d love your thoughts in the comments below.

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