There’s sex, and then there’s virtual sex. You could have either. You could have both. You could have neither. If you are having one, you should try the other. You should try everything life has to offer, so on you can look back one day and say you did. Here are a few elucidating details to reinforce my point.
5 Reasons to Try Virtual Sex
1. Virtual Sex Is Safe Sex
Beyond the usual STDs that we all know about (and even the ones yet undiscovered) there are nasty no-good ailments we all have to worry about. You can catch them on the bus, or in a restaurant, and you could definitely catch them while getting kinky with someone. Over a screen, the only thing you will ever get is off.
If you’re just thinking about exploring kink, there’s no better time or place, than from the comfort and safety of your bedroom.
2. Absence Does Make the Heart Grow Fonder
You might not have the opportunity to be close to the person you want to be with right now. Virtual sex can not only get you both off, but it can also make you closer because it’s an exercise in trust. It takes a bit of courage to do things in front of a camera, and doing them together will be a way to build that trust in a kinky way.
Maybe only one of you will feel comfortable getting naked or touching yourself at first, but give it time. Mutual masturbation can lead to fun online orgasm games with a little imagination.
3. Virtual Sex is Kinky in Nature
Truthfully, having virtual sex is really kinky. This is because, in a way that regular face-to-face sex isn’t, virtual sex is a performative act. You have to put on a show for the other person’s pleasure. You have to move your body in sexy ways and to feel sexy. During actual sex, the organs themselves do the work through sensation. A vagina doesn’t have to put on a show—it already is a show without doing anything.
Over a camera we have to act, and stimulate the mind. This isn’t as easy as it seems. For kinksters who love role playing, the play’s the thing!
4. You Get What You Pay For
Internet connections are expensive. I want to make sure I get my damn money’s worth by getting everything I can from my internet. This includes having virtual sex shows with people. I don’t want to just waste my money sitting around and watching stupid shows about tiger breeders. I want some dirty fun, damn it!
You may just want to connect with a long-distance lover, but if you’re single and staying home these days, finding an online playmate can just be a click away—you can join a site like those in our Guide to Kinky Dating Sites, or explore the wide world of cam girls.
5. It Keeps Your Adventures Discreet
Virtual sex occupies an interesting space between having an affair and not. If you’re with someone and you’re bored, then virtual sex is a way to cheat without cheating. You technically aren’t sneaking out to meet anybody, and don’t forget that it’s safe sex.
It’s also an avenue to exploring your kinky side with your lover. Couples can meet other couples or singles and engage in contact-free group-sex encounters—that’s kinky if you ask me!
Are you engaging in virtual sex these days? Share your tips or experience in the comments!
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