If sexy panties and panty play get you all hot and bothered, you’re not alone. Who doesn’t want to catch a glimpse of the object of their affection in a nice pair of panties? As a woman, I love stocking up on silky sweet-nothings, a wide variety of lace, cotton, and satin panties, thongs, and every other kind of panty. I love to wear my black crotchless panties for my guy, or one from my cute red panty collection.
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Will She Indulge Your Panty Fetish?
Most women are willing to indulge your panty fetish and enjoy panty play with you. We may even participate instinctively—we want to wear sexy panties when we hook up, after all, and if you state your preference, whether it’s for lacy satin panties or a classic cotton underwear style, we may happily comply.
So if you want her to wear your favorite panties, whether you like the French-cut satin style, or the bikini brief, just say so! Every time we hookup is a new opportunity for panty play, so let’s play dress up, or try any of these fun panty play ideas together.
8 Panty Play Ideas for Kinky Couples
1. Gift her with Your Favorite Panties
Let her know you’d love to see her in certain underwear. Yes, it’s okay to let her know you have a thing for that style, because if she doesn’t know it’s a strong preference, she may choose another style or fabric.
The best way to ask her to model your panty favorites for you is to give them to her. Pick them out together, so she can choose the best size or veto any that won’t work for her.
One reason a woman won’t wear a guy’s favorite panties is the cost. If you have luxury taste, indulge her and then she can indulge you!
Read: Tips for Kinky Lingerie Shopping
2. Ask Her to Wear Your Favorite without You
So often with human sexuality, our creativity is the most important part. The idea of her wearing the panties is a huge part of the turn on. So don’t limit yourselves to panty play in person—if she’s game, she can wear your dream thong or yesterday’s used panties to work, out with the girls, or to her family reunion, while you fantasize about this sensual secret.
3. Engage in Panty Sniffing Scavenger Hunt
Lots of guys order used panties from their favorite models because they love inhaling a woman’s aroma. If it sounds kind of cringe to our so-called civilized society, or when we’re not particularly horny, remember that we are animals. The intoxicating blend of hormones and pheromones naturally ignites something at a very deep level.
Picking up her soiled panties off the bedroom floor and huffing them is something every guy has done.
But you don’t have to fly solo at panty sniffing time. If her scent on that satin fabric gets you going, why not ask her to leave her panties somewhere to surprise you after your dates? She can leave her g-string on the floor of your car, or behind your shower door, or accidentally forget them in your sheets… a little something for later.
Read: 4 Ways to Enjoy Your Used Panty Fetish
4. Watch Panty Porn
You can fly solo or indulge together. The good news is that most porn is panty porn, given that people usually start out wearing clothes and then get undressed. But there are lots of videos focused on your panty fetish, with models teasing you in every variety of knicker known to mankind.
You can find panty models at couture fashion shows or wearing couture kits for lingerie companies. The possibilities are endless.
5. Wear Her Panties
Panty play often takes the form of wearing her panties, solo or when she’s with you.
It is extremely common for men to enjoy wearing women’s panties. Why? Simple. It’s the idea of being closer to a woman, feeling like her, feeling what she feels, having her undergarments touch your intimate hotspots.
Other men love the tactile sensations of certain lingerie in addition to the idea of being in her panties. The silk or cotton feels good against your cock, cheeks, thighs, and fingers.
6. Ask Her for a Pantyjob
If you love the feel of the fabric against your dick and balls, or you love her scent, you may enjoy jerking off with her panties. It’s even more amazing when she gives you a handjob with her panties in her hand.
Read: 6 Ways to Make Handjobs Kinky
7. Make Love with Her Panties On
An easy way for panty play if she’s not really into dangling soiled undies while she jerks you off is just to have her leave them on while you fuck.
There’s something really hot about the way some guys just push my panties to one side to get at my pussy, or start sucking and licking my pussy while I’m still covered by my briefs. Start the sex with her still clothed in her cotton underwear, or take it all the way.
8. Enjoy BDSM Panty Play
It’s easy to incorporate panty play into every other kink and fetish.
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If you’re a dominant, for example, you can demand your sub satisfy your every panty need. If you’re a sub, she can discipline you by giving and withholding her panties. She can muzzle you or gag you with her panties. She can blindfold you with her panties. If you’re into leather or latex, there are panties for you.
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