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4 BDSM Sex Practices and Positions for Submissive Men

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If you are a submissive guy looking to get it on with a dominant woman, there are a few ways that you can transfer the power to her. Some are easier than others, and some require flexibility, mental and physical.

If you try some of these practices and positions, you will definitely end up feeling a lot more like you’re a dominatrix’s little bitch, which is really the point.

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4 BDSM Practices and Positions for Submissive Men

1. Peg Me, Please

Clearly, one way to feel like you are the submissive in the relationship is to let her peg you. She straps on a harness and a big-ass dildo, lubes up your ass, and fucks you in whatever position she pleases. With a little flexibility, you can take it in any position she likes.

Doggie style is obviously easiest, but you can certainly lie on your back and spread your legs, or straddle her. Prepare yourself with small toys like butt plugs if you haven’t had anything go in there before. In no time, you’ll be taking purple-dragon cocks up there. Depending on your level of submission, she may want you to wear a ball gag as well.

2. Reverse Missionary

The usual missionary position is the woman on her back, legs spread, and the man on top of her. However, if you start in the cowgirl position with the woman straddling the man and then, holding your cock inside her, slide your legs under hers so that yours are wide open, while at the same time she closes her legs and leans forward, you can achieve reverse missionary.

Now she is fucking you, while on top, with your legs spread. It’s a very interesting position to be in, because you truly feel like you are handing the power over to her. It takes practice and flexibility, but it can be done.

3. Look, Don’t Touch

A popular part of the domination game these days is locking the man’s cock away in some kind of restraint. The chastity cage can be a huge tease, a way of drawing out pleasure, or simply an assertion of ownership on the part of a dominant woman. If you want to take your submission to slave level, this is one way to go that route.

She can do what she pleases, with whom she pleases, but your cock can’t be part of the fun until she decides it’s time.

4. Bondage and Blindfolds

Naturally, restraint is a big part of the submissive game. You are utterly helpless while handcuffed or tied with rope to the bed, and she can do with you as she pleases.

If you’re getting into bondage, you need to have safe words and enter into the practice cautiously. The payoff from these games however, when done right, are huge. Bondage and blindfolds are a winning duo, and you don’t have to plan anything—she’ll know exactly what to do with you!

No matter what you do, be safe and have fun!

Are you a submissive? What is your favorite sex position or practice? Please share!

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