Threesomes are the ultimate fantasy, and for the lucky ones—a reality! My first couple were a real eye-opener and although great at times, far from what I had envisioned. There are many things that can go wrong in a group sex encounter, but more things that can go right when you are fully present and conscious.
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5 Tips for Threesome Hookups
1. Take your time. This begins with planning your threesome. Finding the right play partners is sometimes the hardest part. Whether you feel more comfortable having sex with friends or going the anonymous route, choose your lovers wisely. I like to have a type of meet-and-greet beforehand, maybe a meal, to build the level of comfortability for all involved.
2. Share your intentions. This can be done in a pre-meeting or online if you’ve met them on a dating site. Discussing your boundaries, desires, and what you hope to get out of a threesome is much better done ahead of time, than on the fly. Speak your mind to avoid confusion once things are in full swing.
3. Engage in lots of foreplay. Practice all the small, sweet things that get a partner’s arousal to gradually reach a boiling point. This includes kissing, cuddling, massaging, licking, and whatever other secret talents you have to offer. Including extended amounts of foreplay will not only build to better orgasms, you won’t burn yourself out for round two!
4. Practice inclusivity. The biggest faux pas of threesomes is someone being left out. I’ve been that person, and it isn’t fun. This is again why it’s important to choose partners who you feel a physical attraction to. Everyone should have their moment of feeling like the centre of attention, as well as giving back. It’s a challenge, but necessary for a positive outcome.
5. Be safe. Bring lots of condoms… and baby wipes. When you expand your sex beyond two people, responsible safe sex is mandatory. Most people will expect a change of condom between partners, as well as between vaginal and anal penetration. Respect everyone’s wishes and express your own.
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