If you like the sound of a kinky threesome, you are not alone. It’s safe to say that most people, men and women alike, are at least curious about the possibility. Still, bringing a third person into an established pair can be tricky, creating tension and awkwardness that can spoil the fun.
This is why it’s often best to seek out threesomes with people who are entirely new to you, and who have expressed interest in three-way kink themselves. In the Internet Age, such people are much easier to find because people on kink-focused dating sites will often openly state their interest in threesomes in their profiles.
If involving an existing partner is part of the fantasy, however, then your mission must start with a frank and open conversation. It’s probably best to introduce the suggestion carefully and gently, and make sure that your partner knows that it’s something you think you’d both enjoy, not just a fantasy of yours that your partner is being asked to fulfill.
Unless your partner is all about spontaneity and exploring the unknown, you don’t want to bring up a threesome out of the blue . That sort of thing might work in a porn movie, but your partner isn’t going to be following a script. They will react based on their emotion in the moment, which might not result in the kinky, three-way bliss that you had in mind.
Bringing a third person into your fun is a great way to enhance your experience, whether your kink is bondage, foot worship, wax play or anything else, but in order to ensure that the encounter is all it should be, you need to know that your partners want that threesome to happen just as much as you do.
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