Have you fantasized about becoming a bull for a hotwife and her cuckold or stag?
Does becoming a bull and the idea of being objectified and at the beck and call of a woman make your dick hard?
Well, you can rise to the challenge and become a bull for a cuckolding couple.
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What Is a Bull?
In non-monogamous relationships, or specifically, in hotwifing stag-vixen relationships and cuckolding fetish relationships, a bull is a man who has sex with the wife.
The bull is there for the woman’s pleasure, but he is there with the knowledge, consent, and desire of the stag or the cuckold.
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A bull enters a sexual relationship with a married woman, with his job to please her and satisfy her sexually. If her husband is a stag, it is a female led relationship where she takes many lovers and he gets off on the idea because he has a hotwife.
In the case of a cuckolding couple, a bull will often be more involved in domination and humiliation games. He may perform in front of the husband and/or participate in humiliating the cuckold at her behest. Either way, he is in a sexual relationship with a couple.
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Being a bull means being objectified for your beauty, body, power, stamina, charm, youth, wealth, and cock size. If any of these qualities are lacking, the others must be superpowers. For example, some older guys could possibly be a bull if they are mesmerizing in personality, ripped and have a massive dick.
It’s unlikely that you could be a bull with a small or average cock, but lots of guys with no money at all become a bull. She doesn’t need your money—it’s really not required for anything, but it illustrates status and power and humiliating the cuck who can’t meet her needs. But the main thing for becoming a bull is your sexual prowess.
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Is a Bull a Male Unicorn?
Becoming a bull is different from being the male parallel to a unicorn. The unicorn is the “third” and usually another woman for a male and female couple who want to enjoy no-strings threesomes.
The unicorn is something of a plaything because the couple stays with each other, and she goes home alone. Or course, there are some women who want no-strings-attached threesomes because they are adventurous, bisexual, or kinky. Because this is a rare “find” for a couple, she is called a unicorn.
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Being a bull is different because the bull is not rare. There are countless dudes champing at the bit to provide no-strings sexual services to a married woman for her pleasure.
Satisfying the cuckold’s kink is desirable, too, because being a bull means showing superiority in the virility contest. Becoming a bull for a cuckolding couple means being chosen for unique sexual traits like charisma, fitness, stamina, and, well, being hung like a bull.
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Many men enjoy being “objectified” in this context. But for those who don’t, the equivalent to the unicorn would be the minotaur, not being a bull.
Qualities Couples Look for in a Bull
Attractive and Well Dressed
Becoming a bull is a fairly elite contest. To be a bull, you have to be very good looking.
Yes, it is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And there is something for everyone, someone for everyone, and lots of ways to sex that go beyond the stereotypes for what is hot. But being a bull is all about being valued for your stud qualities. It’s all about being arm candy. It’s about being objectified. And it’s about having more sexual currency than her cuckold husband.
So being in shape, being younger, being healthy, being strong, and being naturally attractive are important qualities in being a bull.
Take care of your hygiene and grooming. You can use a professional but don’t get too “pretty” or high maintenance. Being a bull also means being valued for your masculinity.
A bull can rock nice jeans and a t-shirt or button-up dress shirts and pricy designer clothes. It’s not one particular look that is favored, but rather that intangible quality of “style.” A surfer dude can become a bull but putting his flip flops and flowery shorts on another dude would be disastrous.
Do your best to dress stylishly, but chances are, if you aren’t already confident in your look here, trying too hard in any direction will crush your chances. Sorry, but I have to give it to you straight.
Hint: no matter where you’re at in this department, confidence and a natural ease will go a long way.
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Well Endowed
You can’t do anything about how you were made. And whatever your dick looks like or how big it is, it’s there to give you pleasure, give your lovers pleasure, and maybe to make beautiful babies. But in this case, if you want to become a bull, you need to have a really nice cock. A really nice, really big, cock.
It’s not enough just to have a big cock. So don’t think other qualities aren’t important and that you can skate by and become a bull with nothing going for you but size. A huge dick is an absolute requirement, but she can buy one off a shelf if it doesn’t come with a great personality.
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Sexual Skills
Having a big dick must come alongside knowing how to use it. You need to know how to please a woman in bed.
You have to know how to tease her, please her, get her off, read her body language, and follow her orders. You have to be confident and comfortable with her exacting tastes and needs, and with the fact that part of fucking you is about dominating the man she loves. You might need to dominate him too, and to perform while he’s watching.
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Dominant Character
Becoming a bull is a tricky combination that is not easy to get right. You have to be confident, comfortable in your skin, ambitious or accomplished, and powerful.
You have to be magnetic. You have to be a dominant and alpha character, not a wallflower and not submissive. You have to be powerful enough to satisfy a powerful woman’s intense desires.
And yet, and yet… a bull is a plaything of sorts to a dominating woman. If her husband is a cuckold, he is submissive. You are not submissive, but nor are you dominating a submissive woman. You are both dominant personalities sexually.
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How to Become a Bull for a Couple
Take Charge and Make It Your Mission
Sure, strange things happen all the time, but the likelihood of a cuckolding couple showing up at your door and begging you to become their bull is extremely slim.
It doesn’t matter how hot or hung you are, or how horny.
If you want to become a bull, you have to make it your mission and go after it. You have to put yourself out there. You have to audition, so to speak, or interview. You have to accept rejection or disinterest gracefully. You have to work at becoming a bull!
It’s not enough to be attractive and willing. Attractive and willing is a dime a dozen.
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Join Cuckold Communities
Maximize your chances of becoming a bull by finding like-minded people on cuckolding forums, on hotwifing chats on reddit, and on dating sites. Put yourself out there confidently and speak up for your desires without apology, but don’t beg or plead.
The more people you meet, and the more people who like you, the more chance there will be that you meet a cuckolding couple.
Read: How to Find Cuckold Couples & Bulls Online
Make a Personal Connection
When you click with a hot married woman on a personal level, this is the best entry to the next level.
Read: The Sexually Dominant Woman: Who She Is, and 9 Signs
Hone Your Sexual Skills
The best way to advance your sexual skills is to listen to the women you sleep with and follow their moans and orgasms. Put her first and then observe what works. Understand that no two women want the same touch, techniques, or strokes.
Understand It Is a Three-Way Relationship
Learning more about the psychology of stag and vixen (hotwifing) and cuckold relationships will help you understand more about becoming a bull. You are filling a specific role in that couple’s relationship. This is a three-way street, whether the husband is in the bed with you or behind the scenes.
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How to Be the Best Bull You Can Be
Start with Communication
When you become a bull, ask exactly what the couple wants from you. Open the door to clear communication confidently.
Discuss the Husband’s Involvement if Any
Remember, you are here to please him, too. A cuckold’s kink is to see or know that his wife is fucking a much more virile and attractive man. Depending how far their fetish goes, you may need to dominate him in bed! You may just be fodder later while she shares every gory detail with him. In any case, you need to know.
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Discuss Boundaries
Don’t be afraid to establish boundaries. If you don’t want her cuckold to suck your dick, or you don’t want to film porn with her, say so as suggestions come up. They will also have boundaries you want to know about.
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Take Things Slowly
Go on a date as three and get to know the couple you will be a bull for. Casually enjoy snacks or drinks and get to know each other. Start with erotic text messages or casual games if you are all new to this.
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Discuss Afterwards
Later, you’ll want to know what worked? Ask what could have been done differently. Weigh in on how each person felt and what they need next time.
Remember Your Place
Respect the couple’s existing bond. Even if it looks to you like she’s being mean to him, or like he is a small dick personality, remember you are not the savior. You’re the bull. You are a pawn in an ancient game, and you agreed to those terms.
Enjoy the sex. Don’t think you can usurp his or her role and their love. If you think otherwise, you are making a chemically induced mistake. Remind yourself of this often.
Respect Everyone’s Privacy
Expect and assure discretion. Be trustworthy, and be careful.
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Focus on the Wife’s Pleasure Over Your Own
Men in any sexual arrangement with women know that focusing on her pleasure maximizes pleasure for everyone involved. But it is especially key to being a bull. It is the reason you are there!
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Give Your Best Performance
Enjoy yourself and enjoy her. Take it to the top. Have mind-bending sex. Enjoy the ride.
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