The older woman has been a sexual fantasy of so many for so long that she’s an actual archetype now. Countless films and novels feature a younger man accessing the sexual reservoir of the experienced older woman.
Porn that plays on the power and allure of older women as teachers or bosses is nearly as common as the reverse, where the females are subordinate or young.
Hot older women have the reputation for confidence, unapologetic sexual desire, and experience.
It’s no surprise that you want to meet hot kinky cougars for dating and sex. But how do you make them want you?
By thinking about what cougars are looking for, you can fine tune your online dating profile and present yourself in places where she’s waiting.
What Cougars Want from Younger Men
Put your wallet away.
It’s a stereotype to think that older women are so desperate for companionship and young male bodies that they’re willing to pay for anyone and anything. If you’re looking for a sugar mama, you might want to keep looking.
That said, cougars aren’t impressed by how much money you have or what car you drive. She’s got her own money, and she’s not looking for someone to take her shopping.
Put your best foot forward.
Experienced older women have been around the block. They have had their fair share of hot Latin lovers and lying, cheating husbands. They’ve seen it all. They’re not looking for drama or upheaval or rescues.
Be easy going, cheerful, freshly scrubbed, and uncomplicated. Don’t ask for anything or make elaborate excuses and stories. Be up front about your situation, your lovers, what you’re looking for. Don’t bring your child custody or financial problems to the table.
Leave your baggage at home.
Cougars are looking for no-strings-attached sex and companionship. She doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe her anything. She wants uncomplicated, fun, enjoyable, hot sex and dating.
You don’t have to prove much beyond that. Keep your complications out of it, and make yourself available to just spend time flirting, dancing, dining, making out in the sushi booth, and making love on the beach.
Be generous sexually.
If you’re just looking to get off and get out of there, forget it. The cougar is at a stage of life where it’s all about her, and rightfully so. She’ll take great pleasure in pleasing you, but she’s not desperate to be liked or find a boyfriend. What she wants is good sex and attentive company from an attractive young male.
Now is your time to explore all-afternoon cunnilingus sessions, experiment with a variety of dildos, offer your ass for strap-on sex, spend hours just removing her lingerie, or tie her up and fuck her slowly.
Call when you say you will.
If you want to keep seeing her, you don’t have to play hard to get. You don’t have to pretend that you don’t have other girlfriends or a life of your own. Just be honest, polite, attentive, sexy, and call when you say you will. It’s the beginning of one of the most rewarding sexy affairs you’ll ever have.
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