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If you’re looking to spice up your bland sex life, these explorations may be the answer to your troubles.

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In my experience, vanilla people aren’t going to all of a sudden change their pedestrian ways, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try to broaden their sexual horizons. Give these kinks a try!

Play truth or dare. This is a great way to get people to open up about themselves and try new crazy things. I mean, you just never know what might come of it. Get your lover to reveal her wild side as the two of you challenge each other to increasingly sexy challenges. It starts with her admitting that she made out with a girl in college, but it ends with her giving a blowjob to the pizza delivery guy. Who knows?

Watch porn together. It may feel awkward at first, but the awkwardness can turn to fun. Maybe the two of you will find kinks that you both find hot, or not. Take turns choosing videos, allowing each other one or two vetos, because it’s just as important to know what someone doesn’t like.

Buy her a vibrator. Some ladies like the soft ones, while others need the one powered by a nuclear reactor. Get to know your lady’s clit by getting her a sex toy and watching how quickly her vagina chews it to pieces! Vibrators come in all sizes, textures, and shapes, and don’t forget to let her try one on you!

Try as many positions as possible. When was the last time you got out of missionary? Think about it. Most women are more likely to orgasm on their hands or knees, or on top where they have more control. Want a real challenge? Find a third for a threesome!

Take your sex on the road. Go to a peep show, and do it on the seats there. Do it in the change room at a department store. Attempt a quickie the washroom of your favorite bar. Take your love public in a very secret way.

Experiment with bondage. Make use of all those silk ties that you never wear. Explore the dominant-submissive dynamic with your partner, or for a more playful approach add a blindfold and sensory play.

Film your sexual escapades. Performing makes everything extra sexy and kinky. If you’re a real gentleman, you will delete the evidence after the fact or never show it to anyone. Nothing can wreck a reputation more than a lack of sexual discretion.

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