Kinky New Year’s Resolutions

It’s a running joke because it’s true—everyone forget’s about their New Year’s resolutions by the end of January.

Yet still we want to participate in the ritual decision making that might improve our lives if only we have the willpower!

This year, why not focus on improving your life, expanding your horizons, and bringing more pleasure and happiness to everyday living? How about making Kinky New Years Resolutions?

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Even if you have countless bad habits you should give up, say, smoking or too much sugar, negative list making creates guilt rather than empowerment.

Choosing new adventures and repeated pleasurable experiences, on the other hand, can only make us happier and healthier.

Here’s my kinky list for the New Year!

Make Love to More People

Maybe you’re wondering if my numbers could possibly get any higher. What can I say? I love to make love. But it’s not just about “more” in the numerical sense. I want to make love to different kinds of people, and experience new bodies and learn new things about human behaviour and desire. I want to give the gift of pleasure to all kinds of bodies.

One of the most beautiful experiences of my life was making love to a much older woman, and by much older, I mean more than half a century older. It was her first time making love to a woman, something she had always wanted. I want to continue to be open to the different kinds of gifts I can experience, and give.

Engage in more Role Plays

Sometimes I’m too horny to bother, and other times I’m just lazy, so I skimp out on one of my favorite kinks—role playing. It can take some effort to create a sexy scenario, source appropriate costumes, and find a setting, and sometimes it’s faster just to get down to fucking.

But roleplaying is a world of drama and intensity that is literally limitless, and the more you put into it, the more you get out of it. The preparation it entails is an incredible foreplay, with anticipation that can make you explode.

Role plays can be really serious, but another side of it is more lighthearted. I want to have a lot of fun this coming year! Life’s too short to be serious all the time.

Take Shibari Lessons

I love bondage play. Being restrained or being forced to stillness does wonders for my overactive imagination by forcing it to focus. I can get really creative with hardware or silk scarves, but the beautiful art of Japanese rope bondage, Shibari, is incredible.

Be open-minded, but Stop Wasting Time 

I believe it’s a good thing to try everything once, if only for the experience. But I can get into a bad habit of wasting time indulging someone’s kink when it does nothing for me. That’s fine if it’s a long-term partner, but when I’m just hooking up with someone, and I’ve already “gone there,” I need to move on if he or she isn’t flexible. 

Try Something New every Month

To keep rocking the excitement and momentum of my New Years Resolutions, the most important one is to try something new every month.

See, 2017 looks great already!