If you’ve never been in a threesome or larger group sex experience, it can be a bit nerve wracking and full of potential pitfalls.
From my experience and candid conversations with friends, here are some group sex tips that I hope will help you not only make it through, but also enjoy your first time.
Tips for Your Group Sex First Time
Follow these tips for a great first time group sex experience.
1. Choose one person you already know.
Once you get into the swing of things, you can go online to meet couples or other singles who are experienced.
But for now, try adding a third to your existing relationship, or adding an adventurous friend to the mix. This will help calm the nerves and give you someone to debrief with.
2. Use a group sex dating site.
Finding group sex lovers on mainstream sites can be like looking for a needle in a haystack.
To find an orgy, check out group sex sites where people are actively looking for group sex hookups, whether it’s their first time or a weekend pastime.
Read:Â How To Find Group Sex: Dating Sites That Deliver
3. Pick a comfortable setting.
Spontaneous group sex can happen in the weirdest of places, trust me.
For your first time, either host the get-together if home is where you would feel most at ease, or book a hotel room where privacy and discretion are accommodated.
4. Prepare mentally.
Different strokes work for different folks when it comes to anxiety and group sex beginners.
For anything I’m nervous about, I like to go to the gym and work out a few hours before. This helps to calm my thoughts, and at the same time boost my confidence.
5. Prepare physically.
You don’t need to go to the spa and get a Brazilian, but you do need to trim the hedges and clean yourself thoroughly.
Shower and shave as close to your first group sex experience as possible. It would be a shame to turn the ladies off with a sweaty ball sac before anything has actually happened.
Read:Â Orgy Etiquette for First Timers
6. Discuss boundaries.
This can be done back and forth in messages on a group sex dating site, or during a coffee meetup before you actually get down and dirty.
Some individuals are okay to hang out, eat a meal and talk the night-of. Do what works for you, but share your limits when it comes to kink, BDSM, anal, fetishes, role playing or anything else that you aren’t okay with.
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