Facts & Info

Daddy Issues and Role Playing in BDSM Relationships

Man Spanking Maid

Daddy issues can be kind of hot. At the same time, there are all kinds of boundaries that can get crossed. Once you cross them, there’s no turning back. A love affair may float or sink, but as soon as the incantation “fuck me, daddy” passes through a lady’s lips, there’s no going back.

Find Local BDSM Hookups Now

Daddy issues can start with a woman who has long-standing issues with her daddy, but they can also start with a man who has a thing for much younger women. We know, from hearing tales about our present President, that he has been hiring prostitutes and comparing them to his daughter during sexual encounters. The man clearly needs help, but who am I to judge what gets a fella up and at ‘em?

A girl who has daddy issues might display them in the form of tattoos, scars, or a particularly combative attitude. She may be working through her rebellion against her father by mapping her battles onto her own flesh. It’s the Neo-Freudian Electra complex writ large on the soul. In some ways we all are in this kind of a dialogue with our upbringing, but not all of us get so kinky.

Daddy issues might cause a woman to wants you to play daddy. Part of it could be role playing. She might call you daddy during sex, or do things to try to please you, as a daughter would a father. She may dress in school-girl uniforms and ask if it turns you on. She may demand some form of discipline for being a bad girl. The fact that it’s fucked up might turn her on, and maybe you too.

Daddy role playing is a form of domination and submission, a power exchange mixed with the extra kink of the incest taboo. It’s more affordable than therapy, but I’m not sure if it’s healthier.

If the whole scenario moves into diaper play and giant cribs, then you’ve definitely entered into the adult baby fetish. It’s up to you if the voyage is worth the effect it might have on your long-term psychological health. I mean, will you ever be able to date a normal woman again after changing one’s diaper and engaging in baby talk? 

What do I know, though? Daddy talk is incredibly common, and not even regarded as all that kinky. If it adds a little extra blood to a fine erection, and it gives a gal what she’s craving, then live and let live!

What say you, are you down with daddy role playing if a woman wants to?

Tell us what you think! 1 Comment

  1. That’s me

    June 4, 2018 at 6:46 am

    I’ve recently become involved with a girl twenty years younger than I am. She is very much into the daddy role play, turns out, I am too. That’s how I came across this article, I’ve been gathering as much info as I can to help our situation grow. This particular article, I thought, was a waste of my time. And, as a side note, the jab at our president was totally unnecessary and unrelated.

Tell us what you think!

Find Kinky Hookups in Ashburn at BDSMdate.com
To Top