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Sissy Boy Submissives and Dominant Women

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A sissy boy is a man who is forced into a feminine or a submissive role by a female. This is different from being a crossdresser, a drag queen, or a trans person. This is because the man isn’t choosing to become female, but is being compelled to become female.

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It’s a big turn on to be forced into the feminine role, to be dominated, and to be forced to dress as a woman or girl. It’s a turn on to be made to wear panties and dresses and makeup, to be forced to admit that one is a little slut who wants to suck cock and eat another man’s cum.

Sissy boys are trained to be the true sissies that they are. There is a process by which they succumb to hypnosis, to repeated suggestion. The idea is that through this psychological approach, the sissy inside them will rise to the surface, and they will acknowledge that dressing as a girl and being submissive to another woman is what they wanted all along.

It is definitely a form of domination and submission, but it relies on special tools to achieve its ends. The women’s clothing is only one part. The hypnosis, increasingly as time goes on, relies on hypnotic videos of women giving commands, and on internet gif and webm files that reinforce the desire to serve.

Specific music is also associated with this kink. Music with slow pulsing frequencies is usually added to the hypnotic videos in order to create a state by which the mind relaxes and the kinky underside emerges. The will to resist melts away like mud off the skin as one slips into a warm bath and submerges under the water.

There is also a strong element of sexual arousal through humiliation and shame placed on the man by a dominant woman. The whole thing is an erasure of the norms of masculinity and an affirmation of some of the stereotypes of femininity. The messed up and forbidden levels of it are what make it so kinky.

Although there is a lot of gay iconography involved, the object isn’t necessarily to suck any cocks. It’s more about the idea that one might suck cocks while dressed as a girl.

Sissy boy play is different from cuckolding and crossdressing and BDSM, but it takes elements from all of these.

You don’t need much to get into this kink. You don’t even need a real live woman, since there are lots of videos on the internet. You pretty much just need a par of panties and some spare time. Where you go from there is all up to you!

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  1. Lance Logan

    August 17, 2018 at 5:22 pm

    I was in panties at all times to remind me of my place in life… also very much a maid, but I was never a Sissy in the true sense. She had no interest in involvement with other males. There were a few times when I was made to serve her friends wearing only panties, and very few times I was made available for their requirements. She was extremely possessive, and we both preferred it that way.

  2. Daryl

    August 17, 2018 at 6:59 pm

    Interesting writing. I have had that fixation of a female dom using me as her sissy boy. I have just started in the BDSM scene and your writing made a lot of sense and was informative to me. Thanks.

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