What Is a Birth Fetish?
A birth fetish involves the sexual arousal of witnessing or thinking about the act of giving birth.
This is not a common fetish and one that isn’t discussed often, as there are privacy and legal issues attached. While emotional flooding often occurs when witnessing the birth of a child and even an animal for some, it is not the same as a birth fetish.
The birth fetish is a taboo fetish, or impossible kink, as it’s not something that can be indulged at any time or sometimes ever for a fetishist. Yet with a little creativity, it can be enjoyed without harm inflicted or boundaries crossed.
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How Birth Fetishists Enjoy Their Kink
Birth Erotica
Not every fetishist needs a visual to be turned on by their kink. There are many wordsmiths who can craft a scene that can sexually arouse instantly.
Birth erotica isn’t always fiction intended to arouse either. It can be graphic descriptions of birth in science journals that turn people on. Some fetishists write their own erotica to share in online forums, a place to connect with other birth fetishists.
Read: Should You Disclose Your Kinks and Fetishes?
Birth Hentai
Hentai refers to sexually explicit anime (cartoons) and manga (Japanese comic books and graphic novels. Hentai translates loosely in English to “perversion” or “abnormality.” It comes from two words that mean “weird” and “condition.”
You can find hentai images, comics and novels, that focus on birthing and celebrate it in hentai style. If you already have a thing for anime or manga, on top of a birth fetish, you’ll love this kink combo.
Read: Kinky Hentai: 20 Fetishes Popular in Manga and Anime
Birth Porn
You’re not going to find “real” birth videos in porn, but you will find nine-months-pregnant women sharing amateur videos on porn sites that will likely turn you on if you have a birth kink. Some of these videos will include talk about giving birth and some are about helping stimulate the birth sooner.
You can also find simulated birthing videos on porn sites, where ovipositor eggs are inserted into a woman’s vagina before sex, before she acts out giving birth—laying eggs—to some ungodly creature or alien baby.
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Real Birthing Videos
Apart from watching the video you recorded of your wife or girlfriend giving birth, this isn’t the best route. There are probably real birthing videos for sale on the black market, but you can bet that the women in them don’t want some rando jacking off to a close-up of their vagina.
There have been many forums where birthing videos, similar to sex tapes, are leaked online, and it can be deeply traumatizing for the mother and father. Respect thyself, and avoid being a part of this debacle.
Read: Damage Control for Your Leaked Sex Tape
Birth Roleplay
For many impossible kinks, roleplaying is the way to go. You’ll first have to find a kinky woman who you can trust to share your fantasies with and one who is willing to indulge your fetish by pretending to give birth in front of you.
How a birthing scene unfolds is up to you, and yours. You could pretend that you are her obstetrician helping her to give birth in a hospital, or you could pretend you are having a home birth in the bathtub. Maybe you want to have sex as the imaginary baby arrives.
The great thing about role plays is you can cross kinky boundaries that you wouldn’t in real life.
Read: Sexual Roleplay: A Guide for Roleplay Beginners
5 Birth Related Kinks
1. Breeding Kink (Impregnation Fetish)
The breeding kink, or impregnation fetish, is the arousal when there is the possibility or intention of impregnation. This kink requires consent unless there is some kind of protection in place, for example a woman is on the Pill but there is pretend play involved when a condom is not used.
If a couple is actually trying to get pregnant, then the fetish may involve a kind of domination and submission “game” that involves her “being bred.” This isn’t a common kink, but it is one that both men and women have and can share.
Read: Breeding Kink and the Impregnation Fetish
2. Pregnancy Fetish
There is no birth fetish without pregnancy, but there can be a pregnancy fetish that doesn’t include the final act. There has been a kind of fetishization of pregnant celebrities in the last few decades that many embrace and promote, as though being pregnant was part of a luxurious lifestyle.
Pregnancy fetishists will celebrate a baby bump and excitedly watch it grow. Again, there are boundaries with a pregnancy fetish wherein you can’t just go around touching a women’s pregnant bodies—asking isn’t acceptable either. Admire from afar or watch pregnant women in porn to get your rocks off.
Read: How to Indulge Your Pregnancy Kink
3. Lactation Fetish
Men (and some women) have a lactation fetish where they are sexually aroused by a post-natal woman’s lactating breasts which are much larger than they are pre-pregnancy. A lactation fetishist will love to see milk drip or squirt from breasts and will likely want to sample the sweet nectar.
Some couples engage in an adult nursing relationships (ANR) that see the man regularly being fed either from a woman who is post-pregnancy or who has induced lactation (which should never be done without lots of research).
Read: Lactation Fetish: 4 Types of Milking Kinks
4. Transformation Fetish
The transformation kink includes the pregnancy fetish but has endless possibilities such as pet play, the vampire fetish, age regression, and the dollification kink to name a few.
Although pregnancy is a natural transformation, unlike many other kinks that need to be role played completely, it is the gradual transformation of a woman’s body before giving birth that the fetishist will find arousing.
Read: 17 Transformation Fetishes and Kinks
5. Voyeurism
Voyeurism is the sexual arousal from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity, so this is definitely related to the birthing fetish. Can you be a kinky voyeur to a woman who is giving birth to a child who isn’t yours? Not likely.
Practice consensual voyeurism to act out a birthing roleplay with your lover. You can spy on her while she pretends to give birth. Or maybe your partner is pregnant and doesn’t mind walking around naked to indulge your fetish.
Read: Voyeurism Fetish? 6 Ideas for Your Voyeur Kink
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