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Exploring Incest Kink & Consanguinamory

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Incest, or sexual attraction between family members, is a longstanding and pervasive taboo throughout history and various cultures.

Many people respond to sexual love in the family with visceral disgust. Even in kinky communities, we seldom hear “to each their own” or “not my thing but I’m GGG” when it comes to the incest kink.

And yet, incest is a very common fantasy. It’s a huge category in porn and erotica consumption, with a large audience of women.

Why the Incest Kink is Taboo

There are reasons for the universal taboo. The three main ones are no-brainers.

  • One, a child cannot consent to sexual contact, so incest with children is automatically a sex crime, period.
  • Two, pregnancy resulting from sex between close relatives often results in birth defects, so sexual love within families can be a danger to offspring.
  • Three, incest or incest kinks are seen by some as a manifestation of prior child abuse, even if person is now an adult, so are discouraged as unhealthy.

On the other hand, a grown adult woman who is attracted to her brother or cousin is an autonomous agent. Even if the pathologizing experts are correct and her attraction is because someone else abused her (and it seems this has validity only in some cases), sex is a place where we play out our traumas while we are in control.

Plus, birth control and abortion are available.

Also, cousin love is widely accepted and even expected in many cultures.

There are several important distinctions to be aware of when it comes to the incest kink.

Incest Fantasy or Reality?

For many, the incest fantasy is just that—absolute fantasy. A huge number of folks with an incest kink have zero desire to manifest this in real life. The taboo of it is a huge turn on, but if sister turned into seductress for real, they would have no interest in following through. Porn and role play for the incest kink then suffice, and there is no deep longing for real incest sex.

There are also many who do long for the ultimate sexual connection with a parent or sibling or other relative, and just as many who have had actual affairs and sexual relationships with family members.

In other words, don’t assume that the date with the incest kink really wants sex with mother. But also don’t assume that the person who has never brought it up is not actually doing it with her brother right now.

Read: 5 Kinds of Mom Fetishes and Kinks

Consanguinamory: Consensual Incest

People who practice incest “out” proudly call their orientation consanguinamory, and call for an end to discrimination against consenting adults who practice incestuous love.

Another distinction that is important is consanguine incest versus blended family incest. For many, they are interchangeable.

Step-father and step-sister porn proliferate on sex sites in part to remain legal where family incest is illegal (in most of the world). But step-family porn is also its own fantasy, with some having zero interest in consanguine love.

The step-family incest kink shows that some of this taboo fetish is based on the excitement of subverting the family structure and definition, not on the specific attraction of blood relatives.

Having an incestuous affair—living out your kink—can be a delicious secret or a rewarding relationship. It can also be deeply traumatic by severing or altering a secure relationship, the same way sex can change any friendship or relationship.

Incest as a fantasy can be an exciting and rich part of a kinky life with the right open-minded partner or even someone who shares your fetish. Role plays, reading erotica, and watching incest porn are common practices with endless variations.

Learn more about the incest kink here: Incest Fetish and Fantasy Taboo

How do you manifest your incest kink? Tell us in the comments below if you dare.

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