Do you have a dirty mind? If dirty thoughts consume your imagination and turn you on, you’re not alone.
If an attractive person you lust after asked you to “get down and dirty with me,” I bet you’re all in! But chances are, the things that just flashed through your mind… were not actually “dirt.”
We sometimes use the euphemism “dirty” when there is sexual content. Dirty books, dirty movies, dirty minds. But some of us mean “dirty” literally when it comes to dirty kinks and fetishes. This is the world of salirophlia and mysophilia.
What Is Salirophilia?
Salirophilia is a sexual fetish where someone is sexually aroused by or receives sexual and psychological pleasure from soiling or making dirty the object of their desire.
Mysophilia is the sexual desire to be in contact with dirt or filth, or to be filthy, or to be attracted to people who are filthy or wearing soiled clothing.
These dirty fetishes overlap significantly. Dirty kinks may also overlap with a variety of related or unrelated fetishes, from leather or latex to macrophilia. Most often, they overlap with BDSM fetishes, including sadomasochism, humiliation, degradation, and dominance and submission.
Read: The BIG List of Kinks: 120+ Fetishes Explained
12 Dirty Kinks and Messy Fetishes
Dirty kinks and messy fetishes can be very specific, with a particular manifestation of salirophilia or mysophilia.
Someone may be extremely aroused by the idea of someone urinating on themselves, but not by sweat or body odor. They may get excited by dirty panties only, from saving soiled thongs and sniffing them, but not by the object of their affection wetting herself in front of them.
Others with dirty kinks are turned on in general by someone getting down and dirty, whether they are soiling themselves, sitting in cake, or taking cum shots from a circle jerk.
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12 Dirty Kinks and Fetishes
1. Wet and Messy Fetish
The wet and messy (WAM) fetish is more of an umbrella for folks who get off on all kinds of messy substances. It might be slime, paint, shaving cream, syrup, shampoo, you name it. Wet and messy fetishists like a LOT of the substance—not just a trickle for massage or licking, but a big beautiful dirty kinky mess.
Wet and messy fetish play can be a really fun dirty kink for those who enjoy indulging their lovers, even if you aren’t “into” it in particular. But cleanup can be intimidating. So get wet and messy in the bathtub, or use a giant tarp on the floor to contain the goo. A plastic pool is also perfect for this and other dirty kinks.
Read: WAM Fetish: Ideas for Wet and Messy Kink
2. Sploshing
Sploshing is a wet and messy kink but it is all about food. Cakes, Jello, syrup, milk, mustard, custard, ketchup, marmalade… sploshing lovers usually enjoy watching their object of attraction get covered and smothered by the food fluids.
Read: Sploshing: Getting Wet and Messy with Food
3. Scat Fetish
Scatophilia or coprophilia are the dirtiest fetishes out there, and probably the most marginalized kinks out there. Even the most extreme kinksters out there often have this kind of saliropholia as a hard limit.
Even so, the scat fetish is not uncommon. Many people find human feces very arousing. They may be excited by watching someone taking a dump, or by the smell, taste, and texture of feces. The strong taboo is also a powerful aphrodisiac. For those aroused by humiliation, being smeared with feces or forced to take a crap in front of someone can be the ultimate humiliations.
Read: Scat Kink: All About Poop Fetish and Scat Play
4. Golden Showers
Urine kinks can be dirty kinks, but they’re very common in a variety of fetish expressions. Many enjoy being pissed on, drinking urine, touching it, and so on.
Read: How to Enjoy the Golden Shower
5. Omorashi
Omorashi is a popular fetish in hentai or kinky manga and anime. It basically means enjoyment from watching someone wet themselves, often with the wet spot in their clothing or running down their legs.
Read: Omorashi Fetishists Love Wetting Themselves
6. Cum Shots and Facials
It’s very popular, no surprise there, to want to soil someone with ejaculate. Spraying cum on someone, inside of them, in their face, hair, on their breasts or buttocks, is incredibly arousing.
Cum shots can be an act of humiliation or “soiling” or making dirty, accompanied with degradation or slut talk. Of course, cum is not always viewed as something dirty but as a natural and intimate fluid, so not everyone aroused by cum shots is into salirophilia.
Read: 7 Ways to Enjoy Your Cum Fetish
7. Bukkake
Bukkake is a concept from Japanese porn that entails multiple guys jerking off and ejaculating on a woman (or sometimes in gay porn on another guy).
Read: Bukkake Fetish FAQ: Do Women Like Bukkake?
8. Sweat Fetish
This dirty kink is specific to human sweat. Folks may be aroused by the smell of sweat, by sweaty clothes, by the signs of sweat such as a moist face or armpit stains on clothing.
Read: Sweat Fetish: Related Kinks & Ways to Play
9. Used Panty Fetish
A classic and popular kind of salirophilia. On the used panty fetish market, panties worn for just a few hours are the least popular. Clients usually request the panties be worn for days, or soiled with urine, excrement, vaginal discharge, and menstrual blood.
Read: 4 Ways to Enjoy Your Used Panty Fetish
10. Dirty Socks Fetish
Foot odors are very popular among folks with a foot fetish. Many prefer sweaty, stinky feet to freshly laundered ones! They may also enjoy huffing the shoes. Some have a specific dirty kink for dirty socks. It can be a specific type of socks, such as dirty pantyhose only, dirty sports socks, or dirty bobby sox.
Read: Sock Fetish: 8 Sock Kinks and How to Play
11. Menophilia
Menophilia can be a form of salirophilia. Folks with a menstrual kink may prefer sex with a woman who is menstruating. It can be the taboo and the intimacy, or it can be a thing for blood, but it is often the perceived humiliation or soiling, the blood dripping down her messy thighs.
Read: Menophilia: The Period Blood Fetish
12. Diaper Fetish
The diaper fetish or adult baby related fetishes is about age play, age regression, giving up responsibility, being pampered, being humiliated, taboo mommy stuff, and much more. But for some the thrill is getting dirty.
Read: Diaper Fetish: 6 Kinks of Diaper Lovers
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