What Is a Succubus?
You’ve probably come across the succubus kink or demon fetish while browsing kinks or porn.
The oldest cultures we know anything about through archeology, pictograph or cuneiform writing, or any other kinds of accounts were full of demons and spirits—animated, supernatural or human-supernatural hybrid beings. This is true from widespread cultures such as Australian aboriginal, Inuit, African, Mesopotamian, European, Mexican, and everywhere else.
Demons are considered “evil spirits” in the mythology of most religions, including the Abrahamic monotheisms, Buddhism, and many more. In many histories, demons are dual good and evil. Sometimes their nature depends on your particular alliance.
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In a way, the demon kink or succubus fetish is one of the oldest known to our history. While demonology as a belief or an interest was/is not necessarily sexual, an erotic component is indeed as ancient as known human history.
Demons were sexualized in multiple cultures, with various kinds of supernatural forces seducing or violating humans. A succubus or plural, succubi, are known as erotic, female demons.
The succubus appears in various culture’s folklore, appearing in dreams as a way to connect and make love with a human male.
She is dangerous because she will drain a man’s vital energy, especially if they meet multiple times and form a relationship of sorts.
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What Is an Incubus?
An incubus is a male demon who loves to make love to human women. Plural incubi, the incubus is the male counterpart to the succubus.
What’s Hot about the Demon Fetish?
The mysteries of sexuality, life, and death, and the thrill of being ravished, “taken,” seduced, or introduced to pleasures out of this world are a few ways we can look at the appeal of the succubus fetish or demon kink.
Mythology, storytelling, fairy tales, and folk beliefs are always important aspects of culture. We may believe our cultures are no longer rooted in folklore as science and rationality transcend our stories and relegate them to metaphor. But look more closely and you see that myth is bigger than ever—science fiction books, fantasy movies, vampire academies, supernatural porn—the demon fetish is in part a natural aspect of the way we relate to the world, even in modernity.
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A succubus kink also allows us to escape through erotic fantasy. As with BDSM fetishes where we submit or dominate, a demon fetish lets us give up control or take control. And just as we sometimes say “the devil made me do it” to give up responsibility for our actions, the fantasy of the demon fetish can help us access our most uninhibited selves.
The demon fetish or succubus kink is also for many a kind of body swap kink. The idea that “you” are leaving your body and allowing it to be overtaken by someone else is a form of bodyswapping.
For others, this is a transformation fetish. Someone can be transformed from pure to purely erotic, or from good to evil, or mild to powerful. It can involve a time travel transformation, as spirits are considered eternal. There are endless imaginative possibilities.
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Ways to Indulge Your Succubus Kink or Demon Fetish
Watch Horror Films
Fire up the imagination and get chummy with your succubus fetish by watching a variety of horror movies. Horror is often sexual or erotic, at least partially, a genre often interested in the intersection of fantasy, terror, sexuality and spirits.
Succubus Fetish Porn
Get more hardcore by incorporating demon fetish porn into your playlist.
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Succubus Fetish Erotica
Enjoy a bedtime story ritual with some demon kink erotica. You can find demon fetish stories online and even on Amazon, or you or your lover can try writing your own fantasies and reading them to imagine them coming true.
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Demon Kink Manga and Anime
As with succubus kink erotica, there are many hentai and mange and other graphic storytelling forms that have erotic demon kink themes.
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Erotic Demon Fetish Hypnosis
A lot of erotic hypnosis is for transformation fetishes or for power exchange relationships, or both, such as femdom and sissification or bimbofication. But erotic hypnosis is an increasingly varied expression of sexuality and there are many kinds available, including succubus kink and demon possession.
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Succubus Fetish Roleplay
Get creative and enjoy succubus kink role play! Explore your deepest, darkest fantasies through play acting and cosplay expressions.
You can enact exorcisms, demon possessions, hauntings, succubi seduction, siren scenarios, and much more.
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You can make demon fetish role play up as you go along, or you can research mythology and folklore to mine them for some great plot erotic plot lines. You can enjoy demon kink play by enacting different horror movie scenes or stories from literature.
Perhaps the best known succubus in legend and lore is Lilith, Adam’s first wife before Eve, according to ancient Jewish folklore. Lilith was famous for refusing to copulate with Adam underneath him. Because she was also made from the dust or earth, she insisted they mate side by side. For this reason, Lilith was claimed by feminism as a symbol of equality, power, and lust.
Demon kink dress-up is a wonderful way to get lost in demon fetish fantasy, and to express your primal and divine sides in an erotic way.
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Demon Fetish Gear
Succubus Costumes and Lingerie
What does a succubus or incubus look like?
To role play and cosplay your demon kinks, you’ll draw from your imagination and the imagination of artists, filmmakers, and storytellers before you, much like the way vampire fetish lovers visualize vampires.
There’s a wide range of possibilities and you can create more possibilities. Those who are dabbling or exploring a more playful side rather than a full-on demon fetish will enjoy the wide range of demon and devil lingerie that is red and cute.
A BDSM influenced expression will look like a variation of classic dominatrix lingerie, such as black and red rubber and PVC corsets and laces, chains, and zippers.
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Quite a few succubus kink lingerie options look gothic, mythic, or even fairy-tale inspired, with a darker edge and colours like vampy purples and crimsons. Some look similar to steampunk aesthetics.
You can check your favorite fetish suppliers to see what they offer under “succubus fetish” or “demon fetish.” You can Google or check on Amazon. Or you can create your own interpretation using, for example, black and red lingerie, vamp boots, and vintage corsets.
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Demon Horns
You can pick up little red devil horns everywhere around Halloween time that might be perfect, but there are all kinds of beautiful ram horns, sheep’s horns, goat horns, and various styles of antlers, all designed for fetish play or cosplay.
Demon Hoof Boots
BDSM footwear can be perfect for demon fetish cosplay. There are even ones that look like hooves or animal legs and feet.
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Demon Tail Plug
Tie on a tail to express your inner succubi, or get naughty and use a premade tail attachment that you insert anally and wear.
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Demon Masks
Succubi masks or incubi masks and various devil masks are available in many styles, from handmade works of art to factory made budget styles. These can be lacy, vampy, goth, Venetian, or portray spirits from legends and movies.
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Demon Claw Gloves
Long black opera gloves can work, but go all out and find glove styles that have different animal or imaginary being claws attached.
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