You don’t hear as much these days as you used to about guys who get off by wearing women’s lingerie.
It’s almost politically incorrect to reference the age-old fetish. That’s because transgender women were, for a long time, often condemned as perverts who got off on dressing up, and that they weren’t real women.
This was confusing two very different things, and denigrating both of them—mixing up transgender women with straight cis guys who liked to wear female clothing for a sexual kick.
If you’re a dude who loves wearing women’s clothing, here are some kinks or descriptions you might relate to.
Drag Queens
Drag queens are men (usually gay) who dress up as women, for performance purposes, not sexual thrill. It’s a classic gay theater art that incorporates stand up comedy, props, female impersonation, dancing, MC skills, and more.
Sissy Boys
Humiliation and domination kinks often include sissy boy play, or sissification, where a man submits to forced feminization. This may include wearing women’s clothes, servitude of the fem-dom, or being the passive partner to anal penetration
Donning Lady’s Drawers
This one is common, and most men have experienced being turned on by women’s panties in a department store or even better, balled up and moist on the carpet or the backseat of a Corvette. Some of you got a hard on by touching them, putting them in your pocket, and yes, by trying them on.
Role Playing and Gender Bending
Lots of guys who are excited by women’s clothes get off by something more elaborate than trying on a bra in the mirror at home alone. Acting out various scenes allows them to fully engage in a role.
For some, the gender bending is where the thrill comes in. For others, it’s the specific clothes—a nurse’s outfit for example, or fishnet stockings.
Exhibitionism
There’s a man I see who wears pantyhose and high heels but normal guy clothes from the waist up. He’s got male-pattern balding, a mustache, and wears no makeup. He’s getting off on the fact that people are shocked by his stockings and high heel pumps.
Dressing up in pantyhose or outfits is often about the thrill of exhibitionism. While most guys keep it to themselves, or hide a silky teddy under their suit jackets, these ones are in it to be seen.
Cross-Dressing Kink
Sometimes a fetish isn’t linked to any other kink but itself. Many men are excited by cross dressing in and of itself, period. They are excited by the fact the clothes are women’s, which makes sense, because they are straight guys.
Cross dressing can be simply about being closer to a woman. While most guys tear a woman’s clothes off, some want to put them back on or hold them. The fabric, scent, texture, and memory of the clothing makes them feel closer to women.
Autogynephilia
This is the most extreme version of the cross=dressing kink—guys are so sexually aroused at their transformation, they want to be surrounded by women or to become a woman. Most guys with this extreme fetish just use role play or fantasy to get off, but some take the rare surgical route or ask for hormone treatment for feminization.
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