Want to know the world’s most dangerous and extreme kinks?
Many kink lovers know that kinky sex practices are frequently the safest kind. So many fetishes creatively incorporate objects and roles and may not involve traditional ways of “doing it” at all—thus, avoiding all risks of unwanted pregnancy, or sexually transmitted diseases.
Kinky sex is also proven to be beneficial for mental health, self-esteem and healthy relationships. Some of the reasons bandied around for this effect include the deep trust bonds that even casual kink relationships involve, the positive healing results of play and experimentation, and the acceptance of one’s own unusual proclivities giving a person natural empathy towards other people.
Who knows, but I’ll take my medicine gladly!
That said, we also know that there ARE risks and dangers in extreme BDSM. We know that some risky fetishes are all about the danger—case in point, edge play—and we are all fascinated by the full spectrum of the human psyche, which can go to very dangerous places, in and outside the bedroom.
Read: Edge Play: Taking BDSM too Far?
The World’s Most Dangerous Kinks
Recently, news surfaced that a professor who died last year in a Hollywood exec’s studio actually died in a dungeon, after suffocating during extreme BDSM mummification in plastic wrap.
Inquiring minds want to know: what are the world’s most dangerous kinks?
1. Mummification
Being totally wrapped in plastic or duct tape or vacuum shrink wrapped is an extreme bondage practice that is very dangerous. The mummy can suffocate, lose consciousness, or have circulation issues that lead to injury or death. Even with a mouth hole for breathing, being covered in plastic actually suffocates our pores, which need to breathe.
For those who consider this the ultimate in servitude, or enjoy the comforting lull of being swaddled and subdued, please read up on how to do it safely.
Read: Mummification Bondage Techniques and Safety
2. Extreme Penetration
Training a vagina or ass to accommodate mega-size dildos is one thing, fisting is another. And then there’s double or triple fisting, and penetration by extreme objects like splintering boards, shovels and brooms, or mechanical equipment.
Stick to toys designed for sexual penetration, otherwise you risk serious damage to your reproductive and intestinal organs.
Read: 8 Tips for Extreme Penetration
3. Blood Play / Vampire Fetish
The whole vampire mystique didn’t come out of nowhere—the legends have been around in different guises in cultures throughout history.
Vampire fetish is a rich world for fantasy, roleplay and costuming, but hemataphilia and odaxelagnia—drinking blood or other blood play and biting fetishes—are extremely dangerous. People have had their nipples or labia bitten off, and blood draining or transfusion practice isn’t even always safe when performed for medical purposes by trained doctors. Let’s not forget the potential for HIV and other diseases.
If blood is your extreme kink, consider using menstrual blood, which doesn’t require cutting and is less likely to have HIV in it… and only with someone you know who has been tested.
Read: Blood Fetish and Blood Play Tips and Ideas
4. Asphyxiation
Whether auto erotic or with a partner, the most extreme form of breath play is asphyxiation to intensify the orgasm. Death through this practice is so common that we periodically hear about it in celebrity news, and some of us have family members or friends who unexpectedly committed “suicide.”
Read: Autoerotic Asphyxiation: Can Solo Breath Play Be Safe?
5. Scat Fetish
A taboo fetish for good reason, a fetish for feces, whether consuming, masturbating with, or playing with, is difficult to practice safely. “Scat” is filled with toxins and parasites that aren’t meant for reintroduction to the body.
Read: Scat Fetish: The Messy Business of Coprophilia
6. Extreme Humiliation/Masochism/Sissification/Punishment
I love being called a bad girl and grovelling on the floor—ooh!
You can take the concept of sexual humiliation and punishment pretty deep emotionally and physically without approaching actual danger, but there are always more extreme extremes. Some extreme BDSM masochists have been known to ask to be hog tied and roasted over a fire on a turning spit.
If the far end of this extreme kink is where you want to go, get as much BDSM information on safety as you can before proceeding with a skilled practitioner.
Read: Sexual Punishments for Your BDSM Submissive
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